stupid people!!

[ammanda]

I know it is just bc I'm pregnant, but omg people annoy the crap out of me!!!! I work in a small town bar. I know pretty much every one by name and what they drink and eat.  Every once in awhile I'll get customers that arnt regulars and Let me tell ya, my regulars drive me crazy, but anyway last night I got  group of people in, one being a guy who asked me when I was due, I responded and said June. And then he asked me if it was my first and I said no I have a 4 year old son. And he just got a weird look and said oh. I just walked away.. Idk what his problem was. So then about 5 mins later he asked me how old I was and I said 24, and then he goes oh thank God.so then I realised the look he gave me was bc I was on my second kid one being 4, and he said I didn't look a day over 18!! Which I really don't but how rude!! Who the heck is he to say anything even I was 18! This makes me wonder what strangers think when they see me with my son and my belly... ,ugh some peoples kids! Makes me irritated bc I was actually very proud of myself for not getting pregnant before 18 years old and before I graduated jest like ALL of my friends and as few family members. I didn't have my son until I was 20 and didn't get pregnant until almost 4 years later. When every girl around here is pregnant within 1-2 years if their first one! Sorry. Vent over!

[Ashieej]

Totally agreed! People have been bothering me too. I'm 19, I'll be 20 may 21st. And it seems everyone points out how young I am. I'm one of the most stable and responsible people I even know, and the only one in my family who doesn't leech off of our grandpa. But in my family because I'm the new "story to tell" everyone has something to say. So I getcha. Strangers haven't really bothered me though because I'm only 10weeks3days.

[ammanda]

That's how I feel, like I have my own place, a nice *** car, pay all my own bills, no help from even my bf and I have a nice savings account. I don't have any help from the state except medicaid.  Like who cares how old I am, what should matter is I'm a damn good mom and I take care of mine. My family always makes comments about how careless I am with money and hire spoiled my son is. Idc though, I work my *** off fur my money. I don't let people help me for nothing. My best friend always gets mad bc I won't ever let him pay when we go eat or something.  

[Ashieej]

Exactly! You are doing a lot better than some people out there. And I'm not a caparing judgemental person but if someone is really crawling up my butt I just say "hey, I could be broke and homeless, get off my case I work as hard as I need to" and I feel you. The father is around and we are in classes to get married in the church (we where planning this before I found out I was pregnant) so we are doing okay. But he doesn't make much money and is looking for work so I don't have help from him. Its just bills bills bills and save save save for the baby.

[Ashieej]

Comparing**

[gypsylopez]

I'm 22 and married. I look about 16-17 people still look down at me like I'm an unwed pregnant teen. I remember one time this lady wouldn't believe my id to buy a lottery ticket. Her face when I said "fine I'll just grab my husband" was effin priceless

[MissMandaK0214]

I understand! Im 20, expecting my first in June (oh and my first name is Amanda, so *high five* ammanda lol)  and people always look at my fiancee and I funny because there is a big age gap between us (10 years) and people make comments about that too because "there's no way I'm old enough to be having a baby with HIM" so it would be better if my sons dad was some 20 year old with a low paying job and no priorities? Right. Thanks for your opinion now move on! :)

[ammanda]

Ughh some people are seriously terrible!!!

[fjmommytobe]

People have been really annoying to me too lately. I work in customer service and go to School full time. I'm 24 and I've been married for 4 years. This will be our second baby. Our first will be 2 a week after I have this baby. The other day at work a customer asked me what I was having and I said I didn't know I'm keeping it a surprise this time. And he had the nerve to say that he hopes its a girl since my oldest is a boy so that I'll stop popping out babies. I was so mad I have never seen this man buy anything but alcohol and sometimes he pays with quarters lol. He has no job but still had the nerve to judge me. My hormones are really making me hate people right now.