just wanted to share.

[Beedannyy]

So im 37 weeks 2 days and been with my babys father for 3 years and whn we got pregnant his grandparents were so happy...
Btw they raised him and we ended up caring for them about 6 months that we were together.. but anyways they were beyond excited and whn i hit 4 months his grandpa started to get ill and he ended up passing away on christmas eve... it was so hard for us and all he would talk about was the baby.. :( thn 4 months later his grandmother is very ill shes been in the hospital for 3 weeks and its like we have been goin day by day hoping she will get to see the baby before she passes bec thy say any day she could. Its just really hard because thy were both so sweet..
Sometimes i just wish baby would come because i know it would bring some joy to her because she really was hoping for us to get pregnant... we even ended up getting married in her hospital room because she always said she would be there when we decided to tie the knot.. its just really hard. :( sorry i just had to rant..i just wish things could have went differently.

[householder19]

Oh wow I'm so sorry for your loss.  Hopefully she holds on long enough to meet your baby! God bless an my prayers are with you an your family.   I kind of no how you feel.  I lost my mom in a car accident 2yrs ago. It's been really hard on me. When she was alive she was already planning mine and my now husbands wedding and our babies names lol. Even tho at the time I had only been with him for 2 months.  It was hard not having her at the wedding and its going to be hard not having her there when my baby is born.  I also don't have my dad in my life either and my husbands mom and dad are both in prison.  So neither one of us had our parents at the wedding and they won't be there when the baby comes either. I'm in a different boat then you but I know how it feels to lose someone that's close to you an how much it   s u c k s   to not have them there for your special moments.

[Beedannyy]

Thanks ladies its really hard.. and we try and think positive like maybe we got pregnant for a reason..but its life...just wish things were different.. and i dont even talk to anyone about whats going on.. so ur words make things a little better..

[MorganElizabeth18]

Wow thats so sad ):  I understand why you want her to meet your bundle of joy but you need to remember the baby needs to stay in there as long as possible . Even if she doesn't get to meet your baby , both his grandparents will be there no matter what . Stay strong !  Hugs for you .

[gypsylopez]

We always want it to be different in those situations. I'm so sorry for your loss and the illness. Try to find solice in the fact that they knew you were pregnant and got to share a billion memories with them. Do not weep for the ones that did not happen but rejoice in every moment you did get to share. I know its hard, I could only imagine how excites my dad would be to know I'm pregnant let alone be around the baby. We keep them in our hearts so they never really die. ((((<3))))