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this is a must read people are crazy

So my sister is mad at me because I want to go to the hospital to have my baby LOL. She had her babies at home and I supported her all the way I was there and it was truly beautiful but scary at the same time it was just us no midwife or doctor and she wants me to do the same. I told her what my husband wanted for me and also what I want for myself. She tried to put something in my drink to put me in labor. So I stopped going to her house. I know this is so crazy right and on top of that she wants to breast feed my baby and for me to breast feed her 4 and 3year old. I know this is the most crazy story but it is so true. I love her but I can't have her around me right now.
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It may be beneficial to have a welfare check on the kids. Call CPS anonymously. It may scare her into straightening up.
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Thanks ladies it feels good to talk about this. I don't know what drugs she is on and I am very worried about the kids. She is my only sister out of 7 of us and my brothers live away and they have talked to her and want me to stay away also they have girls as well. But theyer not acting like her. I just think she and her husband on drugs.
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She sounds like a nut case!! Id stay awau frim her if shes being like that ur body ur pregnancy n its uoto u and ur husband where h want to have ur baby no one elses!!
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Wtf!! She sound selfish stay away from here. She's nuts why would you breastfeed her kids your milk? They should be in regular milk! Why would she give your baby her old milk I'm surprise she still has any INSANE!
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Oh my gosh, i am totally frightened for you. Also her kids. If i was in your situation I'd notify the hospital and tell them she's not allowed. Do what you need to do for you and your baby! My god her poor children. Also do what you feel you have to do for her kids to mske sure they're okay but get a restraining order against that lady. .
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1829051 tn?1336190711
That is the craziest story!!...but I would seriously consider some medical help for her and a social worker for her kids that look high!!...
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Yeah at the end of the day I have support from my Daddy husband and best friend who all think she is crazy and wants me to stay away but I need to know if her kids are OK and by the way her husband is crazy too when my Dad goes over he said they look very high and she will never be alone with my child she has girls she wanted boys and I'm having the first boy in the family for the most part of this I'm happy just as long as she is not around me so I stay home a lot I have two more weeks to go then I can see my first baby face my son:-)
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Simple your life not hers your baby not hers you feed your baby and she can keep feeding hers you respected her decision now she has to do the same for you
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2020005 tn?1628125976
Sienna that's what I meant, haha I didn't clarify, I quit breastfeeding when my son got his first tooth, because he nawed on everything! I pumped for a while after that until my milk dried up, but I stopped with breast milk at about 6-7 months, and got him onto formula, and stopped formula at 1, with my doctors help deciding, and I don't regret one bit of it, I'll be doing it with this one as well!
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Personally when my kids get their first they come off the boob but I still pump and give it to them in a bottle.
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2020005 tn?1628125976
Yup :)
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1806883 tn?1458321004
yep thats what I said, its a personal choice :)
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2020005 tn?1628125976
Stacey, I go by my ped's recommendations when I feed my babies regular milk after a year, she is one of the top ped's in new york state and I trust her opinion 100%, there are people that give their babies milk instead of formula before they turn a year, and are 100% healthy, I'm not talking about benefits of bf'ing, or knocking anyone, I'm saying, how is a 4 year old not feeling that's uncomfortable? Or the mother? It might be for other people, but not me! I breastfed my son until he got teeth, after that, it was done for me, and he is perfect height, weight, and is so healthy, he rarely gets sick, so it's personal choice.
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Omg!  Ha ha... I just have ti laugh, im sorry.
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1806883 tn?1458321004
its a personal choice when to stop breastfeeding, if you look at the wold health organisation guidelines they reccomend breastfeeding until the age of 4, of course most people do not do this, but I personally wouldnt knock anybody who chooses to breastfeed for as long as they want so long as it still has its benefits for the child, alsoregular milk from a cow contains huge amounts of antibiotics etc that they feed the cows, so its not actually that good for you, your much better off continuing the formula for a few months to a year after they turn one, cows milk can also be very harsh on a baby (1 yr old) as well, but for the question, I would also personally be worried about your sisters state of mind, its one thing to be vocal about a home birth, but she has stepped way over the line in trying to induce you by giving you a drug and also about the whole swappy breastfeeding thing going on, she could possibly still have some untreated post partum depression going on, or something similar, and I would as the other ladies have said, be extremely conserned about having her anywhere new your baby
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2020005 tn?1628125976
^ I agree!! I'm almost a little uncomfortable past 2! You don't continue formula after 1, why would you continue breastfeeding? It blows my mind. I read people breastfeeding past 3 and it just seems so ridiculous to me!
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1959722 tn?1338778115
Like real life I'm officially scared of your sister lol. And I'm not judging or anything this is seriously a honest question, why do people breastfeed children until they are 3 and 4?
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Yeah she wouldnt be alone with my baby @all...not,even if i just have,to go2 the bathroom..
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That is funny...right give her sis kids the fresh milk and the baby the expired milk......lol!!!
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I think she might want another baby. But she cant expect to just take urs while u take care of hers. I think u should watch out for her to. I wouldn't trust my sisters if any of them told me that.
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Now this some crazy ish....go to the hospital where u can get the proper medical attention n breast feed ur own baby cuz ur baby needs to bond with u n on top of that u the mother hun I wish someone would try me like that they feelings will get hurt sorry for being so blunt but I dnt mind speaking my mind when necessary
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2104110 tn?1358318243
Y wud she do tht? She mst respect ur wishes, no I thnk u mst b careful dear, it al sounds so unbelievble, lol. Do wt u thnk is best for u an ur bby :)
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KTowne: I had the same thought about her breastfeeding the baby when mom's not looking.
NewMom: I know we are all a little shocked at her behavior. But I think its really important that you look at her mental state as a whole. Before all this, was she acting odd? Any signs she could be a danger to her own kids? I hope you will not let her be with your child unattended. Could your husband have a talk with hers?
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2020005 tn?1628125976
I don't even know if I'd feel comfortable with her around the baby!! What if she just decides to breast feed it herself when your not looking?! That is outrageous, and she needs to know her boundaries, not to mention she's trying to drug you!! She sounds a little off her rocker, you poor thing!!
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