this isn't a party house!!!! (venting)

[hazel413]

So ever since my mans cousin moved inn about a month ago, its been late nights with music n game playing.
Need to mention, its a one bedroom n he sleeps inn the living room, which only a sliding door separates from my room.
Thank goodness my daughter is a heavy sleeper.
Usually i can sleep right through it n ignore it.
But my man has to drive his friend home every night n gets to bed n wants to wake me up on some bull.
Ugh oh! N they don't clean up n leave that to me. Very very very on edge.

[hazel413]

Well, thanks ladies.
I woke up with a whole new attitude.
Ive decided they will not ruin this house.
N I'm done letting them.
If i have to be a "b i t c h" so be it.
I will not be ran out my house.
Thanks again ladies you empowered me =)

[fangeorgetevin_1]

Thats A terrible Up Situation I Was In A Similar Situation Bt Instead It was My Brother&I Apt &Our Cousin moved in. They were doin the same stuff ur bd is doin so I just moved out after constantly openin my mouth arguin&fightin bt u cnt up n leave cuz hes ur bd

[hazel413]

Hmmmm. That's not a bad idea.

[shinieshoes]

Do you have anywhere you can go? Don't actually leave just give him an ultimatum.  You or his cousin and the dogs!! Or leave for a few days so he'll get the message!  He does not need to be stressing you out.  

[hazel413]

No seriously!! Guess what!! I only kept this child (judge me of you want.) Because p he wanted me too keep it. I was only nine months part pardum n i know my body wasn't ready at all!
I have very physical work (cna) n almost lost her twice. Doctor told me i was taking a very big risk keeping her.
He insisted! Now
I'm on bed rest n can't work until after birth (i work for the state, I'm a liability)
So that he could enjoy being a dad.
I've been sick up to my a.ss n stressed.
Plus i do everything involving my toddler even pregnant as all hell.
N cleaning n cooking. N walking the dogs.
This pregnancy made me a big a.ss soft sponge.!!!!
Pre pregnancy i would have thrown them both out.
N those 3! (!!!!!!!) 3 pissing dogs out.

[sutton19]

Maybe bring it up to your man see what he says? Just tell him you guys don't have the room for his cousin an it's really bothering you that he's there. You need the room for your baby that's on the way. An just see what he says about it.

[rebeccaann11]

I had that problem when my boyfriend's sister her boyfriend and her son moved in. They would go out drinking all hours of the night And would come home late even with their little son who was one at the time. And then I had The problem with them drinking at the house they would bring her 17 year old step brother over and drink he would get drunk and pass out at the house. Her mom told all of us before he even came over to the house they didn't want him drinking she made all this promised he wouldn't. So when I found out he was drinking after I went to bed I put my foot down. A few months after that my boyfriend's sister and I got into a huge argument and they moved out.

[shinieshoes]

*pray*

[shinieshoes]

NO VOICE!!! Because your staying home to have his child!!! I'm speechless hun. It should be equal say! Hopefully he will pull his head out of his bum. Hope it gets better. Not sure if your religious but I'll pay for you!

[hazel413]

@sutton we don't!!!! No space. But his mom the him out. N he's family. Blah blah.
All my nursery things are in a corner piled up.N my daughter had her play pin in our room.
Im ready to loose it.

[hazel413]

See that's the bull, since I've been 12 weeks i have been on fmla so I'm not getting paid. Before that i ran things bc i paid everything.
Now he pays (were behind on just about everything) i basically have no voice.
I can't stand a dirty house so i clean.
I need a way to get back my house.

[sutton19]

Honestly if it were me I'd tell my man that his cousin needs to go!! That is ridiculous hun. An sounds like you guys really don't have the room for him anyways.

[shann1214]

My fiances cousin just asked us to move in since we have an "extra" bedroom... bc its not going to be a nursery or anything.. but he tried to tell her yes..she has no job, has had her oldest son taken from her bc she abandoned him when she went to rehab (didnt tell anyone) and her dad just took her 2 younger kids for a year so she can "get her life together"... she comes over every wkend which is fine but all she does is drink. And we can tell shes on pills bad still. And i can relate to leaving the house a huge freakin mess for me to clean up. Shes constantly telling me "oh you can drink all the wine you want, wine is safe during pregnancy lets get f'd up!!" :/ i am so sorry you have to go through that.

[shinieshoes]

Set some ground rules! Your house your rules! If he doesn't like it he knows where the door is I'm sure!