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4524508 tn?1357424035

update..post miscarriage

Its been over 2 weeks since it happened i questioned myself why but i see 2 days ago my ex bf/bd called me over i went he said he wanted to talk i talked he got angry and he choked me over 4 times i had to burn him with a cigarette and slap him and he choked trying to pull down my pants and it was like rape i question why would he do this i just lost my child but i see god knew he wasnt the right one choked and punched me and pratically raped me i never saw that side of him now i do hes out of my life but i just cant believe all this happened within a month i refuse to deal with that i loved him but obviously he didnt love me or the child inside me im so hurt but im depending on god now and putting him first
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2100308 tn?1388496839
I'm so sorry to hear about what happened to you. You should definately call the cops and report it. It doesnt matter if you were at his house. You can go to the police department and report it, not only for you but for any other woman he may come in contact with in the future. A few years later you will regret if you hear that he hurt or killed someone and you could've done something about it now.
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184674 tn?1360860493
I aslo wanted to assure you, police are not fools. If you are afraid to press charges because you think you'll both go to jail because he has marks on his body as well by you, the police and investigators can tell almost immediately the difference between marks caused from self defense and marks caused by battery.
File the charges. He beat and raped you. It doesn't matter if he did it to you in his own home or anywhere else. He needs to be held responsible and punished by law for breaking the law and assaulting you physically and sexually.
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You need to press charges. What he did was wrong rape is rape being in his house does not give him extra rights.
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184674 tn?1360860493
I am so sorry--this is so much trauma you should not have to deal with. You absolutely need to press charges, it does not matter if you were in his house or not. Take pictures of the bruises and marks he's left on your body and please call the police to get a rape kit. Please, please, for your self-healing and for the sake of any future women who are at risk of enduring this by the same jerk--press charges for rape and battery and do it immediately. Call today. Please.
I am so sorry. Hugs to you.
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4281488 tn?1353905580
Hun you need to press charges. That is NOT ok. If you don't he will be free to do it again to other women. You were only trying to defend yourself. I am so sorry you are going thru all of this right now. My heart goes out to you.
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4524508 tn?1357424035
But i was in his house so it would have made both of us go to jail and just more drama for me to have to deal with i just want to be done with him it hurts but ill leave it alone now i have to go get a plan b pill because he ejaculated inside me
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U don't deserve that !!! No women does !!! My ex was abusive so I understand what u went threw I think u should press charges on him currently my ex is in jail for 5 yrs any man who puts his hands on a women is a psycho n belongs in jail !!!!!! I hope ur doing ok n if u need somebody to talk to Hun u can inbox me ok
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U should press charges! No one person man or women has the right to treat another human or animal that way! Your so much better than that! The mc was not your fault!! An if it makes u feel any better you now have your very own tiny angel to watch over you!
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4524508 tn?1357424035
it will and thanks
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4375273 tn?1359081785
Im so dsorry your having a hard time at least u seen the real side of.him before he did any more damage. Hope things get better for you x
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