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[aedinaddieplusone]

Ok so here we go I was just being dramatic and started a fight over something serious but out of the blue I brought it up ...anyways my bf/bd and I our having our 3rd together, he's a great dad,works full time plus ot every week but drinks beer as soon as he gets home. Yes he does come home to his family every night and doesn't drink elsewhere but it still bugs me. Anyways I have the hardest time even getting him to scoot over in bed at night if he's in the way, its like he is out cold until his alarm goes off. Well this makes me nervous because what if someone breaks in or there's an emergency or I go into labor lol. I told him I hate that I can't wake him!! Well me being over dramatic said the baby could be nursing in bed ir what if I fall asleep after nursing and you roll on the baby and kill it. ( I know I shouldn't have said kill it)  nor would I ever put the baby inbetween us for thus reason. I was just trying to prove a point about the drinking. He got so mad I said that and left. I feel bad I said that and even know how horrible  it sounds to say that but I just blurted it out and now feel bad. But grrr seriously I can't stand how he's out cold at night!!

[nece062013]

I completely understand! I was trying to get ready for a job interview one day and i was looking for a certain shirt or something and i couldn't wake him up to ask where it was! I started hitting him as hard as i could and i was crying. I picked his arm up to try to sit him up but that failed so i pushed him off the bed and kicked him! Surprisingly, he still didn't wake up!!!!! When he finally did wake up he was complaining that his entire body was hurting so i screamed 'that's what you get!!' And stomped to the car still crying. He was so confused lol but it just makes me so angry when he wont wake up!

[aedinaddieplusone]

Ok well nice to know I'm not the only one lol. At night I tell at him to scoot over and mumble things like ok and than he just stays there lol. Or he'll some what come to after I've been yelling fot a bit and look at me like I'm crazy for yelling lol. And don't evetget me going about his snoring! Man going to bed is such a chore LOL

[nece062013]

My fiancé doesn't drink anymore because he gets rude towards me so he quit. But once he's asleep, he will not wake up for nothing!! And he'll pass out in the middle of the bed so i have to practically pick him up to scoot him over then he gets mad cuz I'm not suppose to lift over 25lbs! But how the h*ll else does he expect me to get him to move?!
I'm scared of having the baby in the bed with us once he's born because i don't want my fiancé to roll over on him. And I've had that conversation with him and he's scared also. I'm terrified that I'll fall while he's sleeping (i have horrible dizzy spells) and hurt myself and he'd never know cuz he doesn't wake up. I'm scared I'm gonna go into labor while he's asleep because i won't be able to wake him up to take me to the hospital.
I understand your concern, believe me. You may have to wait till you both calm down and have an adult conversation about it where there is no fighting so that you can express your concern to him so that he will understand you weren't being mean, you're just worried for the safety of your baby.