well now i

[ftmAmanda]

know what's really going on and why dh has been acting this way. it goes way back before we even got married. i was dating another guy. well i guess he some how ran into this fellow marine and they got to talking. well one thing after another. i cheated on that guy. so he wasn't saying anything nice that's for sure. well since that convo they had. he has showed zero trust towards me and has been horrible. last night on phone was the nicest he has been in three months. of course he called me out on everything but in a nice calm manner. and ask me have i or am i seeing someone. i said no. and asked him same question he said no. i love this man with all my heart. yes he has been cheating on before we got married. i think he might be insecure. i AM not planning on going home til this weekend a little more time. and both agreed on counseling before our babies make their appearance

[Momo1409]

Haha! My mom hates DF. And my sister(who just got married in june) her wedding was so simple. And I ask her all sorts of stupid questions. I convinced DF to go look at flower girl dresses and register at target. :) though he thinks his best man is the only one who will get us anything. Which I can see.....

[ftmAmanda]

thanks ladies.    maybe you'r mother or sister can help give ideas or suggestions for you'r gloris day

[Momo1409]

Just bc its high doesn't mean u will get divorced! :)

And they're alright... Still have no clue what I'm doing!

[SunWorshiper_26]

Amanda I am so happy for you!  I am so glad you both were able to talk and get to the root of the problem :D yay!!  Counseling can be hard work but it is very much worth it in the end!  Yay!  This post just made my day :D

[ftmAmanda]

some military bases do. this one didn't but i live in arizona and divorce rate is extremely high. so i wonder why they don't.  and thank you very much. how are you'r wedding plans going?

[Momo1409]

Amanda that's wonderful. I hope it works for you. Some one was telling me that in some places they make counceling manditory before getting married. I think that's a good idea.

[ftmAmanda]

cassie where are you