what should I do?

[rm2013]

my boyfriend and I have been together for more than a year. And he use to smoke weed a lot but he quit when he found,out I was pregnant. And so he can get a job and still live with his mom. Cause she said he had to quit too. But last weekend him and I were going through a rough.patch and he went out of town.and took his friend with him. When he picked me up from work that night his car had smelt so bad with weed and im just so hurt because he promised,not to do it at all...and I just cant trust him because he never seems to keep hid word until im about to get up and leave . What should I do?

[rosey3216]

At least he doesn't do it around you... My bf promised me 4 months ago that if I was pregnant, he would quit smoking weed and cigarettes with me... Well now I'm almost halfway through my pregnancy and he hasn't even cut back. We don't live together for this reason because his roommates won't go outside to smoke and he doesn't make them.

Anyway, I think kelz is right... If you actually leave next time, he's gonna take you seriously.

[Kelz72312]

TELL HIM NEX TIME HE DOES IT THAT YOU ARE REALLY GOING TO LEAVE AND NOT TURN BACK FOR ONE SECOND AND GO THROUGH ALL OF THAT AGIAN YOU GOT TO LET HIM KNOW THAT YOU ARE BEING SERIOUS BC YOU KEEP GOING BACK TO HIM SHOWING HIM THAT YOU WONT EAVE HIM BC OF THAT YOU ARE GOING TO HAVE TO PROVE TOHIM THA IF HE DOESNT STOP YOU ARE LEAVING FORREAL AND DONT JUST STOP BC HE SAYS HE WILL QUIT JUST WALK OUT OF THE DOOR AND IM BEING SERIOUS BC MY FIANCE CHANGES AFTER I DID THAT TO HIM I WAS IN THE SAME EACT THING YOU ARE IN THE SAME THING THEN FINALLY I SHOWED HIS *** I WASNT LAYING ANYMORE AND I WALKED OUT THE DOOR ,

[Toriiee]

tell him he really needs to stop.. nd tell him he promised... nd if he cnt stop on his own to mby go somewhere that will help him...