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what should i do?

Okay so i don't know if im pregnant yet..... still waiting for my missed period but along side of that my best friend who i might be pregnant by just told me this morning that his ex girl friend is pregnant and now he wants to be with her and if im pregnant he wants me to get an abortion :(   wtf do i do in a situation like this.... im about to burst im so upset. He said if i get the abortion we can still remian friends but i dnt think that will happen.... i mean he would never be able t look at me or see me without thinking about the abortion or he was had me pregnant correct? idk even know if i am pregnant but im about 98.9% sure, plzzz some advice.
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1194973 tn?1385503904
Quite honestly it's not his place to say what he wants, father or not. He wants you to abort because that's less he will have to pay and care for. It's your child and only you can choose what you want. Don't let him talk you into anything, no matter what.  
1373602 tn?1373026364
i agree with Clysta he is the father but i have to take the decision , but first wait and see if ur are pregnant for sure and then decide . good luck with all .
Avatar universal
I totally agree... Don't let him make that decision for you and your precious little baby... It is all your choice. Good Luck
1351369 tn?1294831629
if u r pregnant,keep your baby.He has absolutely no right to tell you to abort yet he is willing to be with the other pregnant girl.What makes your pregnancy less precious and equal.Why should YOU have to abort?If he is not willing to support you,its his loss.Your baby is more,far more precious than his friendship!
1303813 tn?1303159362
Right, from experience, abortions are NOT very nice at all. I had one done for medical reasons and others, Yeah the father didnt want it anyway as we wasnt together at the time which did kinda help me in my situation. (we're back together now) I was 5 stone and very very very very ill, and at the time I wouldnt of been able to give birth without both of us dying. So yeah.. I had no choice.
But seriously, he cant tell you what to do, because its YOUR baby, he just doesnt want to pay for 2 babies. Tbh, if you are I wouldnt tell him... or say its someone else's not his. And thhen walla you got your little one, I know it will be hard doing it by yourself, but you will have your family right??
Like the above post said, A Baby is moe Precious than a friendship...
I bet your mum and dad used to say to you if you broke up witth your boyf, Boyf's come and go but friends and family are forever, basically it would be just like that.
He has NO say in what you do, Unless you're married. YOU HAVE ALL THE LEGAL RIGHTS AS WELL, because you;re not married....
He isnt being very fair. I am sorry this is happening to you.
But Seriously abortion ISNT nice, very painful and take alot to deal with, so please dont listen to him PLEASE....


I wish you soo much luck, but find out you're 100% before you tell anyone though...
But please dont listen too him..

xx
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