Here is not really the place to ask. I am surprised you have not got any rude comments yet.
As for your question as a nurse and mother on her sixth pregnancy it is fine to have a glass every now in then like dinner. A glass is a normal sized wine glass about half full not a fish bowl filled to the rim. Red wine has more health benefits than other wines or alcoholic drinks, that is why they use it as an example.
I drink a glass every now and then, but in the red wine I actually put ice as well as a sprite spritzer. Delicious, and not a lot of alcohol.
I had a few cups of red wine during my pregnancy and baby girl is totally fine but it depends but they said red wine was fine aslong as your not over doin it
My doctor said up to 12 oz of Red wine is okay, but every doctor feels differently about this. It's really a person decision.
Its ok to have a small one every now and then, no often though