When my daughter was about 14 I noticed that her mom, my wife at the timestarted tickling each others backs lightly with their fingers. From my marriage with the mother I know that is something she enjoyed and asked me to do for her prior to this. As time passed my marriage deteriorated. At the same time my daughter and her mother increased their back gickles. Eventually it led to happening behind closed bedroom doors. When I would interrupt them I would open the door without knocking. As my daughter got older they were in bed together near naked and under the covers. I never said anything but certainly gave them looks of disapproval. When my daughter turned 18 I divorced her mom. I got my name trashed through the town by both of them. I am now cival with my wife after being divorced for 8 years. My daughter refuses to speak to me and has done several nasty things to "get back at me". She accuses me of being a horrible father, which I know is not true. I did my best, I spent more time with her teaching her things than most fathers. There was never any abuse from me. My daughter left for college and came home on weekends. Her boyfriend moved in with my daughters mother. After college she married him. My daughter, her husband and my ex-wife all live together. The daughter and her husband have no intention of moving out. My daughter's mom does not want them to leave. My daughter has grown into a spiteful 26 year old who is verbally and emotionally abusive to me. After enduring these treatments from her for 6 years, I finally wrote her off. Please give me your input on what you think was going on between my mom and daughter.