Being in love with my girlfriend.

[ReedJohn007]

So I am in love with my gf and she loves me. We haven't had sex for a month now. But the first time she did it i noticed she really loves it a whole lot. I love it a lot to but I don't want this to become an addiction that we both can't over come through time. I want to have sex with her the next time i see her to show intimacy and I'm still attracted to her physically and mentally in heart. We been pretty much giving space to think about things the last few weeks. But I'm ready and so is she. Do you think I should go for it?      

[Londres70]

How old are you?  Your age would determine how I would answer the question.  

Sounds like you are very young and inexperienced.

[Life360_Dave]

Hi and welcome. I would not go for it only because the way IT is being mentioned. Having sex does not show that you care for her and is not what intimacy is really about. Its about love in all aspects of desire. Caring for her while shes sick, supporting her when she down, being there for her when she needs you. Planning a life together
Sex is not the crowning aspect of a relationship because if it was what happens when sex is not possible anymore due to illness?  What does a person go for then?

[specialmom]

By the way, intimacy includes more than just sex.  You CAN show your feelings and how you care without sex.  If you wonder if you are ready, I'd guess you might not be.  good luck

[specialmom]

Hm, not sure I agree Mommy2Bex3.  Sex is something that people have to e emotionally ready to handle and frankly, gets a lot of people in trouble otherwise.  

Poster, how old are you?  

[Mommy2Bex3]

Sex is only natural so I think you guys should. Just make sure you guys don't fall into that everyday routine where sex is more important than romance or just spending some quality time together .. Take things slow that way you're not only concerned with when are you going to have sex .