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BADS SMELL

HI DOCTOR,
I HAVE THIS QUESTION TO JANICE BUT I HAVE NO REPLY SO I AM ASKING AGAIN TO YOU,MY WIFE SAYS WHEN COME CLOSE TO HER FOR ANY KIND OF SEXUAL ADVANCES SHE FEELS A VERY BAD SMELL FROM ME WHICH FORCES HER TO HATE SEX.SHE IS SUFFEREING BECAUSE OF THIS AS BEING MAN I CAN CONTROL TO BE PHYSICAL WITH HER.PLZ HELP IF U CAN


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hi judy
am greatfull for your reply and suggestions,let me tell you this only comes when i approach her for sex otherwise she dont get any smell so i think this in her mind and not in me.one thing is that i am very sensitive to smell and if anything is wrong with me i will be the first one to know so know way the smell is in me its in her psycolgy,believe me when last year i was with her she was crazy for my smell and wanted go physical all the time,but when i met her after one year she developed this disease. may be as i was away from her she developed this disease to avoid my thoughts.anyways i will try your suggestion.plz give more information if you find.
we belong to a culture where you get married first on papers and then doo all the arrangemt for the girl and then get her to your house with formal party or reception,i fell in love with her from india and she was in saudi then i came to saudi convinced her father then we got married on papers but we were not allowed to have sex,my wife always arranged for a foreplay that too secretly whenever i use to go to her house,for some reason i had to go back to india and then came back to meet her again same way but this she complaint about this smell.i will formally take her to my house in november but this problem between us is decreasing my love.i am worried for her and i know she is not lying she vomitted in my presence because of that smell,she is honest and
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Dear friend,
i am greatfull for your reply and suggestions,let me tell you this only comes when i approach her for sex otherwise she dont get any smell so i think this in her mind and not in me.one thing is that i am very sensitive to smell and if anything is wrong with me i will be the first one to know so know way the smell is in me its in her psycolgy,believe me when last year i was with her she was crazy for my smell and wanted go physical all the time,but when i met her after one year she developed this disease. may be as i was away from her she developed this disease to avoid my thoughts.anyways i will try your suggestion.plz give more information if you find.

regards
Faisal
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Let her try to determine what part of the body the scent is coming from, some people with BO are not aware of it, mostly bacause their senses have became acustomed to thier own odors. If it is an external part of the body that is producing the odor try the hot lime (lemon) cure. Place a lime (lemon) in a microwave for a few seconds and then cut it in two halves and rub the affected area with the lemon halves. Remember that the juice of the lime is hot and can cause serious burns so only use it as hot as you can stand it without causing injuries. It may take more than one treatment for stubborn odors to be eliminated.
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Each of us has our own scent. Maybe she just does not like yours?
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If the problem is with her, then you must tell her or you are both going to be miserable. Sometimes it can be a health issue. Internal infections, or people that are overweight have a problem with body odor (not all, but some do). If a shower does not take away the oder than it's time to make an appointment with a physician to get to the bottom of the problem.
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145992 tn?1341345074
Maybe it's something you eat.  Could it be your teeth?  Has anyone else complained about this issue before?
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Hi kate,
i will try your suggestions difinitly,but i think problem is with her cause i tried to remove the slightest smell from my body to make her feel comfortable.
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HI JUDY,
WE LIVE IN A DIFFERENT CITY SO LAST TIME WHEN I MET HER SHE COMPLAINT SO I WENT TO THE BATHROOM AND I HAD A BATH RUBBING MY BODY SO HARD WITH SHOWER JELL.ITS THE PROBLEM WITH HER NOT ME I THINK JUST LET ME KNOW IF ANY ONE YOU KNOW HAS SIMILAR PRBLEM OR EVER.
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If the shower doesn't help, go to your physician and get yourself checked out.
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There's no doctor here just regular people giving out advice.

Take a shower, have a good scrub all over before you make your advances on her, and put on some appealing fragrance/ aftershave for goodness sake, surely that will help !??


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