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Help!! I know this not the right way to get answer but please!!!

Hi you guys I'm stress so bad it's my job I hate so much !! I'm a Hha I was working there since January of this year I don't work so much hours 4 hrs but they are cut I go in 1-3 I get two hours of break then go back at 6-8 on the mean I go get my nephew from school I have to drive 25 miles from home all the time plus traffic when I arrived to my patient she's so ungrateful . My agency will never let me get the day off last time I told him I couldn't come because I have school he words were till the patient you will come at 2 pm . I feel trap like this Tuesday I really want to quit without telling no one if I do my agency might talk me out of it !! Help please I'm stress out so bad
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7052683 tn?1392938795
So maybe you should ask to be taken off this Lady's case, since she is giving you problems.....and maybe you should tell your sister to take care of her son instead of you.

When you say she doesn't have time for her son, does that mean she just doesn't think about him or that her job takes her away from being able to pick him up.
Does he have school buddies whose parents can pick him up for her.

Regarding this one lady who just won't accept your reasons for not being always  at her beck and call---well let her get someone who won't mind being tied to her. Apparently you have plenty of other clients.
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13167 tn?1327194124
Have you thought about working in a facility instead?  That way you could work continuous hours and don't have to do that split shift to just pick up 4 hours.

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I have so many jobs calls me as Hha but I was worry how I was going to quit this one but this why I stay I have to put my school back a little because she didn't understand I get off at 2pm to come to her it's like this lady don't care as long I'm there everything is ok for her
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Yes

I work 7 days Monday -Saturday 4hours they are split and Sunday 2hours

The only reason why I go get my nephew is because his mom go to work and don't have time for him and his dad pass away ..  

I didn't mind the job but making 260 every week 40 gas phone bill Internet bill that's not enough
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7052683 tn?1392938795
Hi Marzh,

Maybe you just needed to let of some steam and frustration??? .....and that is ok we all get that way at times!
I am assuming Hha  means Home Health Aid Associate, Yes?

How many days a week do you do this split shift and do you pick up your nephew from school each time?

So here is the thing....and you know what I am about to say:
Jobs are hard to find right now.
Are you financially secure that you can quit this job while you look for another?
If so then do it. Find another agency if you like this kind of work or try something else  that allows you a broken  up schedule.
The other thing is WHY do you have to pick up your nephew from school? Is there a problem with the parents picking him up or taking the school bus home--depending on age of course. This seems to be the real issue, and an unfair one that you should be responsible for him especially when it is a 25 mile drive.
Fill me in a little more about why this is so....and let's go from there, K?

CML


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