Oh I don't know if you have a daugther, I don't know where I got that from, you said you had a baby. I guess I assumed it was a girl. Sorry if it wasn't.
I agree, I believe he started to see this girl before you split, and wanted a break because he was torn between you and her. I think he doesn't really deserve your love and is completely immature. I can't believe you have a child with him and this is how he acts. If I were you, I would get angry, through anger we gain some strength. Tell yourself that you are better then this and make yourself a life with your daughter. If he wants to be part of her life, then fine, but if doesn't then you will be ok to do it on your own. You are a mother first and foremost, mothers are able to lift cars off of their children's bodies if they had to, you certainly can get through this. Good luck.
there are too many diseases out here now to share a man. im too selfish to share a man. there are too many men out here to have to share one.
i don't think it's okay what he did or how he's treating you and i think you should leave from this mess w/ your head high and some dignity about yourself. i would like to see you decide you're too good for all of this
Let him go. Chances are he was seeing this new girl while he was with you. It sounds lie he needs to work through some things and he needs to do this on his own, as a man. He needs to make the decision of what it's important to him, as right now, he is unsure. You, on the other hand, stand on your own two feet without him, make a life for you and your baby. Chances are, when he sees that you are making it on your own he may want to come back. It's an ego thing. he did this not you, and a man like that, you don't need. Let her have him, he will do the same to her. Plus, you have his child, he will always be a part of you, is okay to love him. But, is also okay to love him from far away...
Hope I helped