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How many girls out there feel uncomfortable watching sex/provocative scenes on Tv or movies beside your husband??
Please answer..I need to know to understand if I am right or wrong.

Thank you!
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I feel the same way.  It is gross
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Just as a few observations...

In America heads being ripped off, stapped and or shot gets you a pg or pg-13 rating.

A tight shot of a nipple gets you an "R" anymore?

Countries where people ar in shape allow topless or nude beaches ones in America where obesity is rampant want people to cover themselves up more!

The original poster wasn't even singling out porn for crying out loud!

The answer is Anglo America was founded by the most nuerotic people to be chased out of other countries for mental illness and as a result we have a VERY sick and mentally ill culture.
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908392 tn?1316522899
WOW this got me thinking and y’all got to admit, North Americans are crazy uptight when it comes to discussing doing “da grown folk” or looking at or talking about nudity. Why is that?

I guess for me.. I'm not uncomfortable watching anything with my boyfriend.

If it's porn I wouldn't watch it cuz I would feel weird and disgusted by watching other people kong. It's not because it's sexual, I'm cool with jibbys and booty *** booty. It's just that it's porn u know. Ugh I don't know...

Anyways, I don't have a problem with porn cuz my boyfriend doesn't watch it and payin' for porn? No sir.

Oh and dparadiso09 is right. I guess I get uncomfortable with gorgeous women with booty and high heels. How can a guy not look at that, I just let it pass...
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1026463 tn?1252523421
i live with my boyfriend and we've been together almost 3 years. watching dirty scenes with him doesnt really bother me at all although if there is a pair of titts nicer then mine built for a goddess on the screen for 5 minutes and i dont see him blinking that would stir a little jealousy, its normal.
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I dont, never did and never will be comfortable with it. I mean, to me, I feel like Im a peeping tom or something!  I would be embarrassed even if it were a bunch of girls and not my hubby.  And the hard stuff is just animalistic to me and is a turn off! Yuck! I would not let anyone watch me in that situation and feel embarrassed .  I no, I no, Old fashioned!  I think old fashioned should become the new fad.  Sure had a lot less problems and alot more committed relationships than we do now. EW! How can you not get embarrassed! Maybe that should be a post in itself! lol
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1011285 tn?1302116858
and about having kids "exposed" to porn....thats on the parents not the industry
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1011285 tn?1302116858
sorry but porn doesnt make people do stupid things...PEOPLE CHOICES MAKE THEM DO STUPID THINGS...that did kinda offend me seems you like to categorize people who watch porn and rapist together in the same boat. You know that rapist usually have a chemical inbalance in there brain which makes them think like they do...You say that 78 percent or w/e of rapists watch porn before..well i can say that almost 95% of men watch porn, and does that make us ALL rapist...no...You may have different views on porn and sex but that doesnt mean you can put other people down about it or yet even judge for all you know your father might have watched porn. And it was not porn that made sex so popular, Sex sales in the entertainment business its been like this forever, just go look at the ads for cigarettes when they first came out they had girls in lingerie stuff like that...porn also helps with couples not only to stimulate but TO HAVE FUN try new things stuff like that...For etc me and my girl watch porn and copy the postition there in like a little game we play, this isnt to make me want to have sex with her its to try new experiences get yourself out of your comfort zone have fun try new things...it never hurts to experiment

and just remember sex is a natural thing to do....plus the porn business will NEVER go away so you might just want to find a way to deal.
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637356 tn?1301924822
I have no problems with watching porn with my husband or watching a movie with those types scenes in them.  

I will even pick and put the porn in instead of him.
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I think deep down inside you do not want your husband to watch p, and I know you are right
sex is a very personal and intimate thing, porn is like inviting all those people into your bed, (kinda crowded)
humor aside, you can see how complicated it becomes
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Ok but there is a huge difference between the nudity/sex scenes in your ave movie than a porn movie
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319399 tn?1254531681
I wouldn't deliberately sit with him and watch porn..both of us thinks it is disgusting. However, if we are watching a movie and a scene comes on neither of us will get out of the room...so no we don't feel uncomfortable watching provocative scenes on TV. ...but if a child is around it is a definite no no for us!
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189069 tn?1323402138
I don't enjoy porn at all, and I personally would NOT enjoy it with my husband. I think it's uncomfortable and unnecessary.
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484465 tn?1532214032
honestly, years ago, i cringed at the thought of going to the movies with guys when i knew they would contain sex scenes.  it made me really uncomfortable.  

however, now as an adult who's been there, done that it's nothing to me.  my husband and i even joke during love scenes or don't have anything to say or think at all.  they're just love scenes, same as fighting scenes, driving scenes, you know...
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Thank you for not being condescending in your response. and if I offended anyone out there that watch porn I sincerely apologize. As you can tell I  am very much against porn of any type and for the life of me can't understand what anyone sees or gets from it. Having said that, I can't honestly tell you what % of people who watch porn either commit nor don't commit a sexual crime. But what I do know or should I say beleive is that it does play some type of role. I've spent many hrs researching this topic and if the people that watch or buy this stuff did the same, I think they would be amazed by what they would find. If you don't mind here is some more info on the subject for those that think I'm taking this too seriously. The worldwide web has 40 million websites, 4.2 million [12%] are porn. 40 million people visit porn sites a day, 25% of all search engines or porn related, 1 in 4 people visit these sites per day, 70% of men 18/34 visit porn at least once a month, 11 million people in Britian alone are addicted to porn, 117 million people in America visit porn a month, 25% of Americans visit porn at work, 89% of porn is made in America, $89 a second is spent on porn in America alone, 260 porn sites go online per day, Porn brings in more revenue in america than baseball football and basketball combined, 20% of all porn is childporn, 28% of women are addicted to porn or 1 out of 6, 9 out of 10 children ave age 11 visit porn, 76% of the sexual exploitation of children on-line are age 13/15 and 75% of those are girls, 1 in 5 children receive sexual solicitation on-line. I can go on but now you and others can understand why I'm against porn. As for tv, books, radio why can't we bring back the kind of censorship we had as children of the 60'/70's? You couldn't even use words like hell or damn in most cases. I understand most are against censorship but we honestly couldn't be worse off could we?
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717440 tn?1292743742
as for the scenes on TV and in movies that you can't really filter (like porn), it depends... some of it is "soft" and I can handle it, but if it's demeaning like some "real" porn then I have to ignore it... hope this helps!
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717440 tn?1292743742
Thay, I can't watch most of the porn he likes b/c I find it degrading...
BUT if we could find porn that I, ME, likes, then I would watch it with him.


TO madmac: OK, I HAVE TO play devil's advocate here... so 78% of rapists and child molesters have watched porn, right? What percentage of people who do watch porn are NOT rapists and child molesters? I agree with you that is has an influence, but it's not the sole factor... otherwise ALL porn-watchers would be rapists and child molesters, right?
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Let me say for the record Grose that I never said porn was gender related and I never said it was wholly responsible for rapes or childmolestations but it does play a factor. Judging from these remarks if  porn gets you excited Grose, Waringblender and who ever out there disagrees with me than more power to you. And obviously Waringblender the government must care to some degree in order to find out these various statistics. The porn industry is a 57 billion dollar industry, there are over 110,000 porn sites on the internet any given day. There are over 10,000 requests a day for child porn and over 250,000 child porn pics downloaded on the internet a day. They use virtual imagery to make kids look like 13/16 yr old children. It obviously isn't to intice the "normal" porn watchers like yourselfs and others so who do you suppose its intended for? They do all this using the constitution as their cover. So Waringblender,  judging by these stats not "applying to well, anything" obviously they do matter to the parents , guardians, law enforcement agencies etc but then again maybe not to you.
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730465 tn?1281609918
I feel real comfortable when I watch porn with or without my husband. It's enteraing and get sex with my husband after we watch porn!!!!!!!
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I watch porn alone and have watched it with my male partners. Not a big deal. There is nothing "abnormal" about watching porn, and the poster who said it was "trash" - well, you're entitled to your opinion, but it's just that - an opinion. Madmac is full of it - who cares what percentage of child molesters have watched porn? Probably 78% of the entire population watches porn, so your statistic doesn't apply to, well, to anything. Sorry. There is no correlation between watching porn and committing crimes of any kind that I'm aware of. If you've got those studies, by all means pull them out and let's have a look at them.

A lot of porn is REALLY hot.
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568659 tn?1256139982
That number may be correct (maybe) but it is most likely because 80% of MEN watch porno, ever think of that? Thankfully I don't have a SO that enjoys porno but I do understand that most men do and I think if it isn't taking over their lives and ruining their relationships there is nothing wrong with it. My Ex watched a lot of porn and I was fine with it, I would watch it with him, all it led to was us having sex, which was great!!
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As a matter of fact I can as depending on what study you read, 78% of child molestors and rapists watch or have watched porn. Why do people watch porn of any type, porn is made for one reason and one reason only sexual stimulation. People watch it for that reason only it's not about "entertainment". Whats entertaining about watching 2 or more people having sex? Then again as I said given the way people jump from bed to bed like ticks maybe your right.
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You can't blame porn for rapes and child molestation, they really don't go hand in hand. You can have your beliefs but don't try to state fact when it is not.
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Why watch porn at all? It seems to me that if a person needs or requires that trash to achieve arousal or sexual pleasure of any type, theres something wrong. And the answer is no I won't watch porn of any type as I think it's degrading to the people in it. If my son or daughter was ever in one than as much as I love them they would seece to excist in my eyes. If people would stop watching that stuff than it wouldn't be made and maybe then there wouldn't be so many rapes and child molestations. There wouldn't be so much sexual innuendo on radio and tv. But then the way people jump from bed to bed like ticks thats probably why theres so much garbage out there. I asked a woman I know if she beleived in love at first sight and she replied no but I beleive in lust at first sight, go figure
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575741 tn?1235669754
Maybe I'm wierd but sometimes it really bothers me and its unconfertable and I get all self consious and other times I'm the one picking out the porno type movies in hopes for a great sack session afterwards....  
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