Is it still wrong for me to think there is still a chance?
Hey congrats buddy. Good for you. Yeah it'll progressively get easier. The first couple of weeks will be the hardest but one day you'll look back and realize how much of it was her BS. You'll feel so much better.
Good Job! Way to stick up for yourself and not be pulled into her selfishness! Take some time for you go out and have fun and I'm sure you'll meet someone who is so much better for you! But just relax and take it easy for awhile and concentrate on you.
Here....can you feel me giving you a great big hug? You are truly a smart man and I see a great big beautiful future waiting to meet you. Good job.
Hi all. I just saw these comments. I actually talked to her the day I moved which was exactly 2 weeks ago tomorrow. It was a phone conversation and in many ways Im glad it happened. She left more messages pleading for me to talk to her and finally it got to a point where getting those messages was harder than just talking plus I was able to finally speak my mind without worrying about saying something wrong. She told me she didn't know she was hurting me which was bs and that the only reason she was with that guy was because she was mad and me and he helped her to not feel alone... She said she ended it and that she never had any feelings for him. She professed her love for me and said she would never forgive herself for ruining everything and that I was her family.... I told her everything that was on my chest and that I was not going to be with someone who could hurt me like her. In the end I told her she needed to work on herself and that I couldn't talk to her anymore. That maybe down the road when I am feeling like I had time to deal with my side of it then maybe we could talk again. It is hard because of course I still love her but she is very selfish. She has always gotten what she wanted with me and everytime she pushes how much she can get away with more and more. I'm not sure a person like that can change or if she will actually even ACT on it but I know I can't wait around so I haven't. Everyday it gets a little easier...