My boyfriend (22) and I (23) have been together for roughly 2 years. He doesn't talk to other women, doesn't hit me and overall we are a wonderful couple with only one exception- I find his porn habits to be absolutely disturbing, while he simply can not fathom why it hurts me and considers it to be normal. Of course, I can only expect someone his age to look at porn, but I imagine it to be more seldom and I guess...more normal. I first discovered how extreme it was once our sex life started dwindling, so I was curious and looked at his browsing history and photos, which consisted of porn almost entirely. I wouldn't say it was "normal" porn, it was "creep porn", public nudity, etc and there were even naked photos of previous girls he had been with. I confronted him and told him it hurt me, as I did not feel adequate and it felt like he preferred porn over me, especially when I look like nothing like them. We fought about this forever and he finally agreed to "tone it down". I already had suspicions he was somewhat addicted and when I saw no improvement, I blocked all porn sites through my isp. Admittedly, this is a little much, but I thought it would help... That's when he turned to photoshopping girls naked that he knew from facebook and even filming girls he walked behind. This almost resulted in a break up, and I still fear he does this. He claims to no longer go on Facebook, and I have discovered he has now turned to using mobile data or YOUTUBE to get off. This really blows my mind, as it seems he's willing to do anything, no matter how much I stress that it makes me feel differently about him, or how willing I am to have sex. We now have sex once, maybe twice a week. Granted, it could be less, but I feel he keeps it at this minimum simply to keep me happy. I truly obsess over whether he is watching porn or not and for this reason, he has convinced me I am nearly insane and should seek help for my insecurities. All the while I feel like his issues are so much more severe and I have done nothing wrong other than expect him to just not be so pervertedl. I am only awaiting to discover his next "hobby" and I don't know if I can look at him the same anymore. It's almost like he has two personalities and I have no idea who is the wrong here. He rationalizes it by saying it was not meant for me to see and he's not technically cheating. Is this such a silly thing to break up over? Should I be okay with him being selfish and inconsiderate of my own feelings like most humans are, or am I overreacting? I just don't want to feel this way forever, but I can't stand the thought of losing him. Has anyone ever been through this and had a successful outcome, or does it simply end in misery?