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Husband repeatedly lies about sex hook up sites

Husband of 34 years has once again joined sites and created profiles.caught him a year ago trying to start a discreet relationship with someone who works for him. He said he ended it. Then the sex sites started.  Eleven years ago we weathered a year long affair he had.  Took a long time to get the trust back and now this.  Should I just walk out? A lot of years and time vested in this.  The family while grown would be devastated..  Our sex life wasn't a problem, isn't now
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If it were me I'd kick him out. He keeps lying to you and doing all of this stuff behind your back. I think at this point you have to realize that this isn't just a one off oops I slipped type thing. It's an ongoing pattern of cheating that will never stop. For that reason, you should probably contact a divorce lawyer today and start finding out what kind of options you have. Because if you stay with him, he has already proved to you that he will keep cheating and lying to you over and over again.
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I've had to divorce my husband for things which i could not accept and after some time, found a wonderful man that helped me immensely to heal my broken heart. There's a good man out there looking to find a good woman that is wanting a faithful relationship. I will pray that, in time, you find him. God bless.
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He keeps telling me he is committed to our relationship and doesn't want to do anything or have anything compromise it.  My gut told me to not believe it. Checked his phone and there everything was. Was able to see his profile and messages he has gotten from women
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Been looking for one since my post. Enough is enough. Our family will just have to deal with it. Not going to bash him but will let them know it was his doing.  I know I deserve better than this
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