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I love him what should I do!

There is this guy I met who goes my school and we started talking to each other 2 years ago! At first it was great, we always talked, I liked him and he liked me but the age difference always stopped us! I'm now 14 and he is 16 but I think I love him! For 2 years straight he has always been on my mind! I find him incedibly attractive and everytime I see him I get all happy and hyper! We still talk just not as much but i can't get him off my mind! I don't think he likes me anymore but I can't stop liking him! Every relationship I have had which has been like 3 have always failed because I want him! No matter how much I don't want to love him and how much pain it causes me, it's impossible not to! He is everything to me and I really need help! I know I love him because I have never ever expierienced anything like this before! Everything reminds me of him and I never shut up about him! James this, James that, I never stop! and I'm always looking for excuses to talk to him but I just don't know what to do anymore! Please any help would be amazing! Thank you!:)<3
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Well, any hobbies you feel like exploring?  You need to get a bit more going on in your life so that you don't obsess over a guy.  Goodluck . . .  you are at a hard age and I wish you well
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Hey
I don't know if I got it right , but it seems like you need some ideas on getting ur mind off James . First of all , you're 14 , right ? So I guess it's pretty normal, and also 2 years age difference isn't that bad. If you ask me , I would suggest ,( if you absolutely cannot forget about him ) try to atleast maintain a friendly relationship with him. You never know what might happen , he might re-discover you . However if you do not want to try that , you can always do things you like i e : hang out with friends , shopping . Anything u enjoy to keep you busy .I recommend hanging out with friends , socialise ... that way u can meet new people , .... might even find an even more spectacular guy .Might not seem like it, but you'll see .
Goodluck !!
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Wow they are both great tips! And. Am defiantly going to tie the idea of having a friendly relationship with him but I already do trampolining 3 times a week, gymnastics twice and babysitting once an of course studying! So I am well occupied! I just can't get over him!:(
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You are so young and I think just about every young person experiences this.  Trust me, there will be a day when you will be over him.  

At your age, I would recommend focusing more on your studies, hobbies, etc.  just as the above poster has already mentioned.  

When I was your age, my school courses were extremely heavy and I also did alot of volunteer work and was heavily involved in school plays, band, etc.  I didn't have my first real bf until I was 18 and graduated from hs.  

Try to keep yourself as busy as possible.  This is just a phase; trust me.  
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But I don't think it is a phase! 2 years is long and has seemed like a decade! It's so hard!:(
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Have u tried talking to him?
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What do you mean? About what!?:)<3
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