My current boyfriend is very different than anyone I've ever been with before, and I just don't seem to understand him. He doesn't open up, confide in me, express his feelings, talk about his thoughts, dreams, goals, desires, nothing. Anything he talks about is superficial. Likewise, he doesn't ask me anything personal. He has never asked about my childhood, plans for the future, likes, dislikes, allergies, my birthday, nothing here either. But he will say things about wanting us to be together forever and have a baby together and different projects we can do around the house over time to increase the value. But then he barely touches me. When I come home from work, I don't get a hug or a kiss. No hugs from behind, no holding hands, we only have sex about twice a month, and when we do there is NEVER foreplay of any kind. It's just a very straightforward question, "Do you want to have sex?" Then very transactional intercourse. But he can't sleep at night unless he is cuddling me. And he always kisses me goodbye before he leaves for work in the morning. He calls me or texts me during the day. I guess I just don't know how to decode the mixed signals and I'm hoping someone can help me understand where he's coming from better, or perhaps what my course of action should be.