I wouldn't think that counseling should go on for years, or it would defeat the purpose. I think that you should be given tools to work with within a relationship, and then go forth and use them. Best of luck. Know that if you need to talk further to anyone here, just send a friend request.
Ya thats the main reason for going.
It may be weeks or months or longer. Depends on the issues and sometimes some issues raise new ones. Is he seeing someone for his bipolar?