It's hard to know what to advise. It sounds like your wife is emotionally drained in terms of sex and cuddling with you (though she might like the cuddling if she didn't think it would automatically lead to the desire for sex in your mind). This doesn't mean she does not love and appreciate you, it probably means that the idea of sex is unappealing to her overall (even though she might masturbate every now and then, that is just a cold-hearted physical release, and does not require the emotional expenditure that sex with another person requires, for women). If she is drained of the emotions for it, she won't be interested in it. She probably feels embarrassed over this for your sake and perhaps a little sorry, and that would certainly make her defensive if you ask her for sex. But being sorry and embarrassed does not mean she can muster up any sexual desire. My suggestion is that she might see a doctor and ask about testing her hormone level and possibly her thyroid, but that perhaps a counselor could be of better help to get to hear from her what is wrong.
Maybe i explained it wrong if i did im sorry but i dont know what to do.pack my bags and walk away im not doing that not what all we been through you dont even know half of it a man should be able to love his wife and not only sex.but to feel close and hold them tell them you love them.but i reckon thats to much to ask for.
Is there any women out there that can stand up and help a man.
I was hoping somebody could give me some good advice or say something to help me get through this its hard on a man to we wake up one moring with a different woman.i dont know what to do with this i have a disable daughter to.im about to go crazy.i love my wife.rabbit3
Please i hope some women will answer my post i really need help how to work thistles out.not trying to be outside of the way but hadn't to explain.i need a woman who bcares to tell me the trufh about what i can do.thank you.rabbitt3
Rabbitt3 i have to look at naked women or i would forget what it looks like.we was doing it 4 times a week than she cutting it down to 3 then down to 2 if im lucky.im taking testrone shoot once a month because i had none in my system i got so weak i couldnt get up.but it has really helped.but it makes me horney to.i cant helping it.i know she uses a shower head to masterbate and late at night her fingers.but i cant hardly touch it.something aunt right i told here this she denied it and told me if i wanted to jerk off do it she didnt care.
From rabbitt3 i need some help anybody know what i can do.i also have a disabled grown daughty.i havent had a nice hug and a kiss for along time i love snuggling up with my wife but i cant remmeber when we last done that i miss it so much i think its gone for good.instead of a wife i sleep with a piece of ice.most of the time when i get in bed she gets up and sleeps in a recliner.im a very clean person.do fiquire it out.she told me that thats the only way i love her is for sex.she never wants to spice our sex life up.she doent like it when i talk about sex.she getts mad.