there was no answer for me. no, and my husband doesn't get mad.
if i've had a hard day and i say no...that's it. end of discussion. i'm not his sex slave. i'm his wife. the 50's attitude of i'm man so do what i say doesn't fly in my house. we're an equal opportunity marriage. and there are times he says no and that's the end of it. we go to bed. i do NOT think a man should force his wife to do anything she doesn't want to. and if he does...he needs strung up by his toes and beat like a pinata.
I think it all depends. I do believe having a healthy sex life benefits the relationship, however, you're not a robot and can't be expected to just do it because he wants to. You should have an understanding man but some do take it personally. Some don't care as long as it's a reasonable amount of time, not like once a month. I also believe they need to understand, romance and intimacy to. I guess it all depends on how good communication is in your relationship and that will make a difference in how the man feels.
men need to be understanding to some things and don't always think of them selfs,
you ask them to sit and cuddle or watch tv and cuddle with you, i believe they forgot what that is. ...