Help!!im young

[ShardaeDuhh]

okay so my son is 3weeks old today & his father is really messy & his family I just need a little thought on what I should do...okay so this drama started every since my son was Born since dec4, my child's father haves a gf which is pregnant, but not by my child father..smh I know that's desperate of him but she just keep trying to start stuff with me & tryin to deal with my son but I NEVER speak of her bc that's what she wants from me, but my recently I've clicked her Twitter bc I seen she was a mutual friend or watever & soon as I get on her page she's talking about "I can't wait to get my stepSON son clothes" like I believe that I disrespectful because I'm his mother & I don't even kno her for her to say anything good or bad about my son, she been trying at me soooo hard && my son grandmother (his father mom) she swears she doesn't have anything to do with this same girl , when we use to talk but the girl post on her Twitter "my boyfriend mother always want me eat" I'm like huh..but at the same time me & my son mother did just get into it but it was that recent around the time she post that post & MIND YOU the girl is pregnant but it's not my child father baby!!!

[specialmom]

Honestly, this is a tiny bit petty and silly hon.  Your not with the man so you must know it is INTRUSIVE to go onto her twitter page.  And she is with the father of the baby so if they stay together, she'd be the step mom, right/  And if she is saying nice things like she is going to buy him things . . .   don't let your jealousy or anger get in the way and cause problems.  To me, that sounds like the drama is coming from your side of things rather than from her.  Stay off her page.  

And the mother in law wanting to know her son's girlfriend?  Isn't that a normal thing?  

I understand that you are hurt but don't let YOUR issues over the situation translate to your holding the child over their heads.  The father also has rights to his child.

So, I'd take a step back and see that from an outside perspective that this drama does have to stop and you have to stop it.  You were done wrong by the guy, it sounds but once a baby is in the picture---  you have to do the right thing and put the baby first.  good luck

[slm39]

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[Dragonwings]

Weather or not the baby is your baby's father, if he is going to be with her she will be apart of your son's life. Appreciate the fact that she does want to do things for your son. If she wants to talk to you talk to her. Be civil! Like it or not she will be there until if or when your baby's father leaves her. Try to be friends. You never know she could turn out to be a great person. And y'alls children may end up being best friends. God brings people into our lives for a reason. Learn from it. Best of luck and Merry Christmas!

[slm39]

I really have no idea what you're asking sweety. Is it pregnancy related?