We've been together for 1.5 years before she got pregnant. Not planned but we decided to keep it and we were really happy about it. Picking names, future talk, etc. We told our parents and mine were ecstatic, hers... not so much.
Afterwards, I started making moves to prepare for the kid, we would move to another state where my mother would help us out since she's retired. Her family advised against it and warned that it would be a mistake if we weren't married. We both don't want to get married right now as the wedding would get in the way of the cost of having a kid. However, I gave her my mother's ring and told her it was my commitment to her. She cried we hugged, kissed, and fairy tale ending to our night.
Fast forward a few months, we are happy, I'm doing everything to help her, buying her WHATEVER she craves because cravings are real. She starts second guessing the move. I tell her this isn't about her or me anymore, it's about the kid. The kid has a REAL chance of success with both of us in the new state. I get upset when she tells me she doesn't want to move anymore. Her parent's convinced her to stay. I get real upset and tell her it's a TERRIBLE idea to have the kid here.
Few weeks go by and I talk with her. I accepted the fact that her family wants to have the kid here and am willing to plan things out here instead. We are back on the same page. She would move in with me after a few months and I would take care of things. I've been constantly texting and calling her asking hows shes doing and if she needs anything, doing the 'right thing' in my mind.
A few more weeks go by and we meet to have a date night. That's when she drops the bomb on me, she wants to just be coparents. She doesn't feel the same way about me anymore. WTF. We were a good couple. I was always there for her, when she was sick, when she was doubting herself to switch careers, etc. Her family never gave a F*** until she got pregnant. Now she's saying she wants to move back in with her family and for us to remain 'just friends' and needs 'space'.
I am LIVID at this situation. I get she's pregnant and it might be hormones, but she says she feels clear headed and not emotional.
I've been constantly texting and calling her asking hows shes doing and if she needs anything, doing the 'right thing' in my mind.
One week after this talk, I tell her I need to meet. She tries to push it off to a later time but I tell her it "it needs to happen now". We meet at her apartment and I tell her "If you truly feel you have no feelings for me anymore deep in your heart, then you need to end things between us. I can't be just friends, I love you and I want us to be together but if you don't, please let me go. I deserve to have someone who's crazy about me and not keeping me on the sidelines."
She ends it.
I am shocked and hurt.
I ask for my mothers ring and key to my apartment. I tell her "if you ever change your mind, give me a call, I love you"
I hug her and we part ways.
This was 1 week ago.
I have been all over the place emotionally. I recall a moment where I surprised her at work and a coworker asked her:
"Is that your husband?"
"What? No. The hell you talking about?"
"Uh-huh sure. I saw how you looked at him all smiley"
So my question...
Should I move on from this and date other girls OR wait until the kid is born to see what happens?
99% sure the kid is mine.