48 yr old boyfriend looks at teen porn

[Ymmpurple]

I found teen porn on my bf phone. I was so upset I installed spyware on his phone. It is a daily occurrence. Even when I am just brushing my teeth. Should I be worried about my 14 yr old son's  friends who are girls? This is freaking me out. It a

[Chima7]

That's gross. I don't understand why you're still with him. If I was in your shoes I would've thrown him out the first time I found that stuff.

Kick him out and choose better next time.

[Ymmpurple]

Now I find daddy daughter porn right before his adult daughter comes to visit for the holiday. He lives with me not my sons father. I am scared to death. He is area you drinker.

[Nighthawk61]

well, my first comment went missing, and then i did the last comment and the first showed up... whew!!! oops

[Nighthawk61]

Oh boy ! I'm so sorry that you're so upset, What a complete bummer it would be to find my husband doing something like that...

My first thought would have been about myself, like WTF ARE YOU KIDDING??? THERE'S 3.5 BILLION MEN ON THIS EARTH AND I GOT STUCK WITH YOU????

but whoa ...how long have you been together,? are you dating or living together ?

I think knowing what you know , and you can't block this out, it's going to be MIGHTY DIFFICULT for you to have him around your son or his friends. I'm assuming that he is not your son's father right ? Were there also young men in the porn ? hmmm

I fell for you, Hard to let this go on your part. I'm so sorry that it's happening to you.......

Liz

[Nighthawk61]

Honestly , i would be worried for sure, i remember losing a dear dear friend in high school, and when we were at the wake, his dad actually came on to me...... I was 16 years old.

Your story reminds me of that guy....

I'm glad that you found this out! How awful it would have been to have gone ahead and married him , not knowing this ?

It certainly would be a deal breaker for me, kids' or no kids.  Sorry about this bit of bad luck, but there are some really decent men out here....
Hopefully, it's time for you to resume your search...

[Chima7]

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...with someone like him anymore?

[Chima7]

I'd kick him to the curb. What's the point of continuing this relationship when you're totally grossed out by his behavior? How can you possibly have a normal relationship with

[Londres70]

Instead of installing spyware on his phone why not get rid of him?  You already had the proof before you installed the spyware.  

Sure you should be worried about your son's friends, but you should also be disturbed by the fact your bf enjoys watching teen porn and the fact that you allow him to remain in your life.

Ewww and downright disgusting.

[specialmom]

Hi there.  Sorry about this discovery.  Gross and yuck!!  Honestly, I doubt he'd molest your son's friends.  However, are you going to be attracted to a guy who lusts after young teens--  EVERY day?  That would be the end of my sex life with that guy!!  He's WAY too invested and spending WAY too much time watching porn.  Get out of this relationship for multiple reasons.  good luck