Something Positive

[smileluvr]

I have read a lot of negative things in this forum. Personally, I have had my bad share of relationships and heartache, but I did not let it deter me from being happy in my current relationship. I have been cheated on and he has the child to prove it.l have been put down and made to feel like I was the scum of the Earth and have the testimony to tell about how I regained my strength. I am currently in a relationship and I love evreything about it, including the arguments. He has been nothing but supportive when I have failed. I was recently hospitalized and he missed work to stay with me those 72 hours I was there. It truly ***** that relationships do not have that sacred meaning that they used to have. I was just wondering if anyone can share their positive stories or offer some uplifting advice. I want to hear your story even if it is how you overcame heartache to become a stronger and happier you.

*Please do not hold the grammar and spelling against me, I am at school and bored as heck.

[katarina777]

What makes you think she will come back now? What makes you think she is really interested in other people's stories?

Me think not.

I think she needed to talk about her winning. problem is, life is a mixture, always.

[kjbandme]

I think it's great that you are asking to hear stories of HOPE and TRIUMPH.  I think it would be great for everyone to read about how something that looked so dark and hopeless turned around.  

Please tell us your story !

[Sully03]

I'm sorry to read that the people that posted on your comment didn't do what was asked of them. I think it's great that you want to remind people to speak about the good things, and remember our triumphs. I have my issues but I try to remind myself not to let it out on others. Most people don't do that. Reading your post made me feel like there are more of me out there, people that don't want to complain all the time. I hope that you're doing well, and as for me; my situation has improved considerably and yes, I am happy. I'm doing something I love and helping people that hopefully will one day remember me with a smile. I'm making my mark! Now all I'm missing is to make some money so that I can pay my bills!!! :-)

[sammy73]

I guess people only come to this board because they have relationship problems.  If everything was going just fine and dandy, and their relationship was good, why would they be here?  So, yes, most of us are full of negative stories, I'm afraid.

Ask me 18 months ago and I'd be full of positive stories.  But I wasn't on this board then.  Unfortunately, since then, it turns out none of them have a happy ending :-(

[katarina777]

'I want to hear your story even if it is how you overcame heartache to become a stronger and happier you.'

You have not told us how you did this, but are just assuming that we are all 'negative'. Also, I hear you are listing evidence that entitles you to 'bad feelings', even if you are not having them as you would be entitled to. It sounds sort of like that most people 'complain' even without this evidence.

I know this sounds sort of mean, and I don't mean it to, but your post is a little strange, I think. (lots of meaning in-between the lines.)