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This is nasty

He takes shower with his 8 yr old son that is NASTY
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134578 tn?1602101550
I assume "He" is your boyfriend and the child is not from you and you have not been around for all the child's life.

My husband takes a shower with our 9-year-old son and it's not nasty.  They don't shower together all the time, but sometimes our son climbs in with him.  He's still a little boy in many ways.  There is nothing sexual about it.  Sorry you are seeing it as nasty in "his" case.  
134578 tn?1602101550
Seriously, unless you are getting weird vibes, you really should see that this is just what good dads do, they get their kids clean however.
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Agree with AB.  
3060903 tn?1398565123
Men are expected to shower in front of other men at the gym in most cases i think, this may be his way of making the experience natural for the boy.
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