I believe if you have a healthy relationship with your spouse we dont see the "flaws" of us all getting older. I know i have changed and so has my husband but the way he carries himself is what makes me even more attracted to him. He knows who is his. His body is just an added bonus!!!
Love
Respect
Trust
Supportive
Patient
Well, I've been married forever - since 1985. I was engaged to a different man when I met my husband, and broke my engagement off when I met him.
Here's the list:
smart
sweet
become undone when you see me naked
want to listen to me talk to you
ask for my opinion, and trust it
Ok, the 3rd thing has waned quite a bit, because I'm not the pretty young woman I was when we met. Maybe I could change the third thing to be, still very much want to have sex even though we've both aged. ;D
Hm, let me try . . .
Appreciates the real me
Entertains me with conversation and humor
Kind spirit
Work ethic (for work AND the relationship)
Respectful
Top 5 must have from the person I am with:
Faith
Honesty
Forgiving
Good personality
Kind
Top 5 things in a relationship:
Stable
Friendship
Forgiveness
Honesty
Romance/love
Honesty
Sense of humor
Maturity
Kindness
Stability