What can i do

[Rich699]

I've just been dumped by my girlfriend of nearly 5 years for what she thinkscheating on line witch is wrong ! Plus she thinks I've been a member of lots of dating sites ! Me and my son lived with her and her son ! My son hated her and I know he put stuff on line because of that ! She made him admit it and it still dudnt change anythink I even have her bank statment to prove id not been a member! She was a dreadfull girlfriend really in lots of ways but I still miss her and love her!!

[Chima7]

I'm not sure what your question is. Please clarify your question?

[Rich699]

Maybe I need to hear the truth from others out side my life

[Londres70]

What's the question?  Or is this just a vent?

[Rich699]

Vent yes help yes ! It's nice talk I g to people that are real and respectfull !

[specialmom]

Sorry to hear of the break up.  Do you think your son sabotaged your relationship by putting things on line?  

Well, that's unfortunate.

But it DOES speak to how unhappy he was which should be considered.  Maybe this is for the best so you can focus on your boy for a while without the distraction of her and her kid.

good luck

[Nighthawk61]

Stay rid of the dreadful woman, you can do better, you also have a really good reason to, for your son. Find yourself a nice girl to be with, so that your son grows up with a proper role model. Sorry if that's not what you want to hear. Breaking up is hard to do, but SO WORTH THE EFFORT WHEN YOU LOOK BACK ON IT AFTER YOU FIND YOURSELF A GREAT PARTNER.

[Nighthawk61]

glad you came back. :) you'll get through with a little help from your friends..

[fantima_r]

you left her because your son didn't like her!!!you have your own life!!go back to her!!bc you love her ..

[TTinKKerBBell]

You say You need to hear the truth from others yet You spoke the truth YourSelf - You should listen to what You told us:

#1 "My Son hated Her" - this in itself is enough.  Your FIRST priority is Your Son - not Your GirlFriend.

#2  "She was a dreadful Girlfriend really in a lot of ways"  Your FIRST priority is Your Son - don't put a "dreadful" GirlFriend before Your Son

[Londres70]

"What can i do"..........move on and forget this if she was dreadful.  Going back isn't going to change her.