ok, ladies and gents. to make a long story short. my ex and I broke up last year around this time. so, it's pretty much been a year of being single and I will say it's been ok. i have tried talking to other guys, but I just don't find myself interested in them. well, back in oct of 2011 my ex and i reconnected. he was telling me he loved me, his heart was with me, and everyone he knew kept telling him to go get his girl. of course that made me feel good because I missed him too and was willing to work something out. well, from oct of last year up until about 4 weeks ago we were still having a sexual relationship with each other. I know it was wrong, but I felt so comfortable with him...i just couldn't help it. well, now im a little mad because I feel he was just playing games with me the whole time since we reconnected. he kept saying if i loved him that I pretty much needed to wait around for him so that he could figure out what he wanted. he never gave me any clear decision on if he wanted to me with me again or not. I was feeling like he was just staying in contact with me for a purely sexual thing and just telling me all those "sweet nothings" just so it would seem like he cared. I haven't spoken to him in 4 weeks and I really have no intentions to, but I this is where I need advice. I know if he text me that its gonna be hard to resit responding bc there is still that little hope deep down inside where I feel like...ooo he might change. How do how i really move on from this? I am an educated woman with a degree and in the process of going back to school to pursue another degree. I have smarts, but it just seems like i have no common sense when it comes to this foolish man...any words of advice would be great.
thanx guys!!