thank you for the advice everyone..:)
I think it is really important to not generalize about males and females. Everyone is different. Life is right "some" are jerks of both sexes and there are plenty of great people of both sexes too.
The best thing is to get to know someone very well before you fully trust them or become intimate emotionally or physically. good luck
Yes, some boys are jerks and some girls are jerks. With experience you will be able to figure out who is and who is not. Sometimes the look in their face can be revealing.