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cheating husband

My husband is cheating on me..I'm 27 weeks pregnant and i just don't know what to do...if i leave him i feel like I'm taking away the opportunity for our child to have a good life, but if i stay i won't be happy, and i will look stupid...i just need some help..
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mag131@I agree with you 100%  if u feel like you goin to be unhappy den u kno wat u ned to do nobody cn tell u r give u da answers.becuz us as women no wen we r DONE..if u want it to wrk wit your husband wrk it out make him work hard for your love n trust bck n your ntt goin to look stupid dat your life n your husband...
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Don't stay and be disrespected. Stand up for your self. Marriage is a sacred vow that he broke he obviously doesnt take them seriously. You can leave and eventually find a real man Who can treat you the way a self respecting woman deserves. Don't ever settle when I was w my ex I stayed unhappy bc I wanted my son mason to have his parents together. Then a friend of mine said something that made perfect sense!!!!!! He said "a happy.mom means a happy mason" and I thought about it and realized it was so true. My.son is very happy now he has an amazing step father and a new baby brother and another sibling on the way. His father is also happy and having a second child as well. So dont settle do what you feels right for you. Idk if your having a daughter but I wouldn't want.my daughter to think a husband cheating and sad.mommy is.normal. and I wouldn't want my son thinking cheating is ok. good luck on your decision.
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Doesn't matter what kind of cheating he's doinh lol if she has proof that he is there is no excuse. Whether physical or just talking. If it's behind ur back its wrong. Period
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Do u know for sure he is cheating? Is it physical or is it an emotional affair?
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Maybe he'll learn his lesson if u walk away for a bit. Also hun seriously don't feel forced to stay IF ur not happy. Best of luck to you!
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One of your friends will get the shovel.  Good luck love.  That's awful.  Worst time to do it,  never a good time though.  Labbe at least for a while so he knows toy won't put up with it and be strong.  Sending my love.
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1821865 tn?1317522031
Who says the next guys won't cheat we all take chances and fall in love with someone expect to be perfect. Marriage has ups and down.
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I have never been in that situation, however, I would like to offer my condolences.  What a cruel thing of your husband to do. Remember its not your fault..it is his! I wish you the best and try to think good thoughts. Im soo sorry!
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Drop him like a hot potato! Just because you are not together does not mean you can not co parent. If he is a real man and a really daddy he will make sure he is in your child's life. And there is no sense in being with someone if you are unhappy. You don't want to bring your baby into a world of unhappiness. I'm sorry about your situation I really hope it works out for the best. Keep your chin up :)
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1821865 tn?1317522031
Don't leave all marriage aren't perfect some of us just try to work it out, go for counseling. It will be me more painful to walk off while you are pregnant. At least wait until the baby is born if there is no change then move on. I am he has a reason why he did what he did. Some guys don't know how to handle pregnancy stress plus these ladies out there are throwing themselves at married men like its a plague.
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I agree don't let him get away with this
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I'm with thislady, and besides, if he did it once,he's going to keep doin it
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9776112 tn?1406080261
And u don't need that stress on u and baby..good luck
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Thank you
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He cheated and wats worse is he cheated after you both vowed to one another! He can be apart of ur child's life but u need to get away from the relationship ..
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9776112 tn?1406080261
Leave he can. Still be a father to baby but if u accept that then he'll think u will accept anything he does!
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Leave, don't look back. He cheated on your while PREGNANT that says something.
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