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feeling sad and tired

I only have two months left until the baby is hetr and my bf wont do nothing to even help me I feel so sad. And husy tired I already cleabed the room but I still need help to paint anf to redecorate and clean out the closet if I try to tell him to help he just blows me off and says im annoyinh and bug and to leave him alone right now I just feel like buying a punching bag and to just take it out on the bag I really dont feel like asking my mom or susterd for gelp because I feel like I do bug ...
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Is he working everyday?  

You are at home all day?  Correct?
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Thanks hopefully hell see it on his own but I doubt it but ill keep hoping
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I literally walk around the house and make it seem like whatever I am doing is really hard on my body, even if it's not. Maybe he'll see then that you really need his help. You really shouldn't be doing everything your own. I painted the room and her dresser and set everything up by myself and i paid for it, I was so sore the next couple days! I hope he comes around for you!! Don't let up, keep telling him you need help
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I know tell me about it he works night shift so I do everything on ky own either way but on his days off I tell him I need help to wash ot pick uo the room and nothing and when my step son is over hes 13 I have to deal with his rudness because my bf doesnt want to deal with him either just spoil him and it gets me mad because whenever I tell him I want us to go look at baby stuff he always says no but watevers im just tired of telling him all the time and reminding him I mean yea I didnt make this baby on my own .....
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Omg my boyfriend was the same way!!!!! Do not let him tell you to bug off, it's his baby too! His mom had to help me with everything! Makes me worried for when she's here but he needs to step up! And don't let him use the excuse of he's stressed about the baby so he needs a break because you're just as stressed, you don't need to do everything.
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