funny behavior

[hangtime1]

I am a 36yr old black male married to my wife 2 yrs older. She have a 16 yr old son and i questiin thiet behavior. She walk around naked in front of him and tells me he stills kisses her with an open mouth. One day upon returning from his room at night, i cornered her as soon as she entered our room and touch her vajay-jay and it was wet. I ask her why and she said she was having a sexual thought of me while talking to him, which i dont believe. She closes our bedroom door everynight with me in it and goes to his room, upon returning she immediately goes to our bathroom closes the door, does something in 10 seconds and then comes to the bed. One day i set up an audio tape and it came out horrible, could barely make out anything...one part i did here clearly was "SPIT ON IT SLOPPY, NOW BLOW ON IT, EASY". I am still trying to figure out what could a mother be telling a 16yr old in our bedroom to SPIT ON SLOPPY AND BLOW ON EASY. Then there was an issue with a missing condom from my draw when i was away on business travel, which causes me to be away for about two weeks a month. I asked about the missing condom and she was surprise i counted it, to make it short the anwser i got was her son had sex with his girl friend who is a virgin and she had no clue it occurred with her door open and his open when i was gone. This is what he told me and her when i question him..the reason i believe it is a lie, is because i counted 6 upon my return in front of her at night and a funny thing happened the next morning when i went to work. Another condom made its way back into the bag, but it was the same condom that i had given to him with a slight rip at the tip. So someone try to cover up things the next morning and all hell broke lose when i got home.....what do you guys think?

[deadmemory]

WTF! This is disturbing, gut wrenching and sad to say the least.. I don't care too much to talk about personal things from my past but I was raped twice.. first time at age of 5 then again at 14... well I was raped more than twice, but the rapes I am speaking of right now were by uncles. No one did anything about it.. no one believed me... yet you are kinda watching this happening. I hate hearing stories like this... rape or molestation is almost like having your soul taken away.

You can help this young man.. this woman is disgusting and needs to pay for what she has done! I pray this young man isn't destroyed and he doesn't prey on women! Call the authorities and CPS! If u don't, it will possibly destroy you.. I feel sick!

[rockinrobin32]

I second that...or 12th it, rather! I've also read this post before, DEFINATELY!  one word comes to mind, SICK...well, two words..but I cannot write the other one!

[Londres70]

Just as Specialmom stated, we hope you can give us a positive follow-up to this disturbing situation.  

I wouldn't really care what her family, therapist or whoever thought.  I would be out of there based on the questionable situations and questionable answers she has given you.  I mean, you live with the woman and child; you have more insight into what's going on then the family or the therapist.  

[specialmom]

Okay.  Well, next time you come back------  I hope to hear that you went to the authorities.  Obviously you can't leave this boy with her.  Rememer, HE is not the problem but her.  He is an abused child if what you've written here is true.  

Child protective services take reports and investigate.  You need to make a report telling what you've said here.  

And how in the world could you be attracted to a woman or want to be around a woman that is sexual with her own son.  That is beyond gross.  Oh, and illegal,  She's technically a criminal if what you suspect is true.  Turn her in and get out.  
goodluck

[hangtime1]

I was reading some replies before when all of a sudden i did not see my post anymore and i kept looking and looking but nothing. So i repost it today before i head off to thearphy tomorrows and made my final decision on whether to stick around or not.

[specialmom]

Now why would someone come back posting this twice? That sure is odd along with the story.  I knew I had read this before--  good work Londres!

  

[Londres70]

Well, this still needs to be investigated by Child Protective Services.

This is uttery sick and disturbing.  

You were dmuzic_Ivr before.  I thought so.  

[hangtime1]

Yes i did make a post earlier but somehow it was gone.

[hangtime1]

Well it was brought up to her families attention and they came over asking questions. So it was her word against mine and some of what she said she dont do he said she does. He was not around when she stated that she does not do such things, so we causght her lieing about being naked around him. And their stories did not match when he was first ask how many times he had sex with his virgin girlfriend...he replied once but she said twice before we got to him. After he said once she jump in and said you said twice and he replied yeah twice...anyway we are heading to thearpy tomorrow and hopefully we can come to a conclusion on whether i need to be here or not....her family say that she is in denial and ashamed and i concurred...

[Londres70]

Have you posted here under another name? I think you have. You story still sounds just as disturbing as before (that's if you are the same poster); if not.......it is still disturbing.  

"Teaching him things that she should not and he is never going to give her up?"   WHAT?  This is nothing short of CHILD ABUSE according to your post.  This is NO competition between you and her son; it is NOT like you're competiting with another man to win your wife back.    

I would assume any rational, sane person would be "heading for the hills" and then reporting her to CPS like yesterday.  Divorce procedings would be started ASAP.  

And if by some chance you are "sticking around" for more, I wouldn't  consider you rational or sane but in need of some serious therapy as well.

Not trying to be crude or rude, but you need to report this and get out of there.  

[specialmom]

What a strange way to put it.  You are accusing our partner of molesting her son.  That isn't teaching him anything but would mean she is a sick predator.  His not ever giving her up sounds like you see him as the other man verses a child victem to a mom that is sexual with her son.  

You need to report her to child protective services immediately.  

[hangtime1]

My gut tells me she is teaching him things that she should not and he is never going to give her up.

[specialmom]

What's your gut tell you?

Did you post this before under another name?  Just curious.