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health problems get in the way

Me and my boyfriend are both 24, been dating for a year, it was going great, we had some minor problems bc I'm not used to relations ships, he has, I have a fighting parents his is perfect! Lol I sometimes get snippy like what my parents I think he's afraid we'll turn out like that.. ALSO I have a yeast infection, it affected him, he now has cuts on his penis whick puts a HUGE damper on things,so now he's questioning us, apprently bc I have no career yet also is a problem, but we really do have GREAT moments.. I don't know how to win him back n get him to love me like b4 stuff put a damper on us.. Advice? Lol
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134578 tn?1642048000
Well, working on your personal problems and being happy with yourself will take you a whole long way.  :)
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thanks for answering! and yes we got an appointment set up for him this week, so we'll see what happens there, career wise im not too worried about like i have no clue w hat i wanna do.. i just wanna make $ and be a mom..but i think he might see that as unsuccesful.. but then again he's not making progress either so i dont know if he should be comparing me..for right now tho im just gunna fight my urges of being snippy, so far so good, i think i have done alot of damage and build up in him so it willl probably take time..like its not at the point to get help, but i totally agree with you.. i shud prob fix my own personal problems and be happy with myself
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134578 tn?1642048000
First, both of you should see the doctor.  No messing with over-the-counter treatments.  Then get your priorities straight.  Does the lack of a career bother you, or does it just bother him?  Can you get counseling for being snippy in a relationship with someone who you apparently really want to love you?  (I don't know if I would be too happy in a relationship with someone who is snippy to me.)  It might be possible to win him back, but you don't do it by temporarily changing a few things you feel he doesn't like,  you do it by a full-court press on taking care of things that are going to bother you in life anyway if you don't take care of them (whether he is there or not).
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