my love

[mariya76]

now am a student .doing msc .when i was studying bsc i was love with one boy. that was proposed by me. one months every things are ok. but after that he started to saying am looking not good and all. then he is saying his brother will not allow in this marriage. but i d't let him to go. but he was trying to avoid me. then i was started to think about the boys who are proposed me. and am depressed so much . then i was decided to let him to go. that time i have a thought like that  i wil go for msc and he has only diploma. and am also reduced the contact . after some time he shows some interest . but am so dipperesd about what am experienced from him. so i dicided to leave him. that time noe of my old friend come and proposed me. that time really i was in in the need of love. and i said yes. but now i cant love him properly. my mind some what with my last lover. and i likes my class teacher and am proposed him, but he was engaged.  in my class one of my classmate proposed me. i have some some soft corner on him. now he has doubt on me. now we are in fight.  my classmate  calls me daily now he is saying he cant marry me. because his family will not allow that. but i said him to i loves him, then he said me to will u leave me when another boy proposed you.?????????. am cheater???? now i want to get love .. but my fate is like this what i have to do????????

[specialmom]

I think Tick hit it right on the head.  You need to not date anyone for a bit.  Otherwise, you are just finding "someone" to be with rather than the right one.  I know marriage is high on your mind but you need to wait a bit with no man in your life to clear your thinking.  Good luck

[mariya76]

thank u very much for answer. it was helping to me. and giving confidence....

[AnnieBrooke]

It is a wonderful problem to have, that so many men would like to marry you, but if their family can suddenly stop things by saying it is not possible, they might not be that serious when they propose.  (They always have an "out," so they can say whatever they want.)

In any case, as ticked suggests, concentrate on your studies, there will clearly be men aplenty for you, you are not obligated to rush now.  

[ticked]

You need to break it off with the one you are with and not go back to the other one and take a break.  There are more men out their that will love you the way you want to be loved.  For someone to say that you are not looking good and he proposed to you just prior, that is mean.  Can you imagine what else he would say later on in life if that is how he is treating you now?  

Focus on your school and forget about the boys until you are done.