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need to vent.

Hi im 34w pregnant and me nnd my bf got into a bad arquement. He punched me in the head. Slapped me in the face. Spit in my face pushed me repeatedly nnd tried to kick me out with jus a bra on. Im soo hurt right now. I love him but after what happened tonight i think i might be done. He called me all types of names.. Bite me nnd treatned to shot me.  Im soobtorn apart right now nnd he forced me to have sex withb. Ibwould rather die thanbto deal with this.
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If you don't leave, you're going to end up on the news as having been murdered by that piece of trash you call a boyfriend. Anyone who hurts a pregnant woman just once, or multiple times like this douche bag, is the lowest, most reprehensible piece of garbage walking the earth. If you care about your baby's life, get the hell out of there and don't ever look back. He will eventually kill you and your baby if you don't leave now.
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Definitely agree with @Yoshii_93...if you havnt left or arent at least in the hospital by now theres no point asking for advice. Please be strong, overcome your love for him and do the right thing for yourself and your child. Thoughts and prayers sweetie. Please give us an update that your safe....
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480448 tn?1426948538
Oh dear.  I agree with remar 100%.

You need to call the police, and get yourself to a hospital ASAP to get assessed.  This isn't "love' sweetie, it's abuse, and it will only get worse.  He threatened to shoot you...believe him.  If you stay, your innocent child will be subjected to the same abuse.   Get a PFA and get to a shelter if you have to.

Best to you, I hope you stay far away from him.

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9121436 tn?1407979502
I would do something with the cops. Quite frankly would get a restraining order. You need to do something or when your baby comes you have no amo on why he can't have your baby. If he loses his temper with you he could with your sweet baby a baby is weak and won't be a week and wont be able to handle that type of abuse. I'm very sorry that happened to you and it sounds very tramatizing but for your baby and yourself you need to get the cops involved. You won't forgive yourself if you dont and something happens. You don't deserve that period!
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7212053 tn?1400524109
I hope u listened to these ladies and called the cops or left the house please give us an update soon
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You really do need to call the police and get to the hospital. He could have done some real damage to your innocent little baby. I hope that everything works out and you and baby get out ok.
If he can beat and rape you while you are pregnant, think of what he will do after the baby is born. It will get worse until he kills you. You need to get help and get to a safe place now. I am so sorry you had to go through this. That animal does not deserve you or your child. Please get help and get him locked up
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I know its hard momma but will not get better. Ur poor baby doesn't deserve that...imagine how he'll treat the baby hes a fukn coward
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Sad to hear I'm sorry girl I really am sickening to hear but I cannot believe your asking for advice for a situation like this on what to do...your about to be a mother you gotta start being strong
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Chances are that things are only going to get worse. He beat you and he raped you while you're pregnant. How can you love this guy? He can not love you and do something so terrible. You have your baby to think about now. If he treats you this way and doesn't even want the baby what's going to happen you the baby is born? He can say he's sorry all he wants but this will happen again and it could be even worse. Call a relative to come get you. If that's not an option there are woman's shelters that will help you get in to your own place.
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I dealt with this before. The best thing to do is leave or it will get worser, trust me honey.
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Please call the cops :/ I hope you and your baby are fine
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Ohh yess another thing u need to call the cops and tell them everything that ,that woman beater did to u ....and have them get u to the hospital to check f your baby is ok and nothings wrong....u can b internally bleeding kus of what that a$$hole did to u
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Just call the cops. Hope your baby & you are okay.
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Thank you soo muchh ladies
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Girl call cops, things can get to a worst point where ur only going to regret it, saying from my experience its tough don't get your self into a worst ending call cops make a report, .
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8367118 tn?1442605420
It's not safe t be with him. Do this for yourself and the baby,! Don't listen to any s h i t he says he's abusing you physically mentally and emotionally. I'd call the cops get a restraining order and leave far away where he won't find u
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Has he ever acted like that? What was u guys arguing over?? U need to get away and leave his sorry *** and yess get a restraining order on him and have his *** go to jail....u don't deserve that ****....your pregnant and he put u out like u were a dog ...omg this made my blood boil when I seen this ....u need to call the cops immediately
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Ive never dealt with this before. He constantly breaks me down physically and mentally. He tells me i should have got an abortion when i had the  chance.
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8367118 tn?1442605420
Call the cops you shouldn't be dealing with that crap! Pls for the love of God, go away, he's a sick person. You have a baby to care for, don't be afraid to start on your own. leave now!
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7566904 tn?1394763978
Oh my god girl.  Leave his A$$. You may love him but what hes doing to you is abuse! Definitely not good for you and your baby. You can do much better than that! F**k that piece of Sh*t
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7400888 tn?1401574739
Put his azz in jail immediately
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