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I ve been seeing guy for 5 years. We sperated, now we see each other now and then. Everytime i start asking same questions over and over . Do you realy care, do you love me over and over . what is wrong with me. I just want to feel loved. So, I keep asking over and over the same things. I try not to
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There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. You just need to figure out the truth. Look for little hints that he possibly could love or care about you. If you guys keep seeing each other and he follows through with it, he probably does care or love you some what. Just try your possible hardest to stop asking these questions. They will just irritate both you and him. Or maybe you could sit down and have a talk with him and tell him how you sometimes do not feel love. Or maybe the problem could be that you're not showing enough love towards him by always asking these questions. Guys never really come out and tell you straight up that they love you, but they do little things that you have to look real closely to see, that show you that they love you. Good luck!
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Thank you. I'll see how it goes.
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Never Never chase a man or ask the questions you do it makes you sound insecure try to more independent a man likes to do the chasing and telling the woman he loves her It sounds like you are scaring him or trying to get him to make a commitment, also if you have been dating 5 years and he has not popped the question chances are he never will, start seeing other people, and then maybe he will wake up if he cares, if he does not you will have your answer  luck  jo
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You seem emotionally needy and that turns most men off. Look deep within yourself and search for when this all began. In your childhood, did your parents not give you enough attention? Were you in relationships where the men left you, leaving you with this void inside and fear or feelings of abandonment. You lacked being loved somewhere in your life and it's affecting your relationships. A counselor would be great to talk to and just sort out your feelings. Good luck!
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The reason you ask these questions is because you are unsure of where you stand with him.  Since you were once together and now only see each other every now and then you want to know what you are to him.  There doesn't seem to be any established terms to this relationship now.  Are you his girlfriend again?  Are you exclusive?  Are you moving forward with the relationship?  This is why you feel the need to ask those questions from him.  But if he hasn't answered them, that means he doesn't want to answer them.  He likes things the way they are and if you constantly ask, he will get irritated and it will turn him away.  I suggest you sit down and figure out what your relationship is all about.  Do this one and only one time and you will know then what he is looking for with you.
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960021 tn?1270662682
You have every right to try and find out where you stand in his life. Especially if you're willing to inform him of where he stands within your life. Don't ever feel bad for wanting to know where something is going, whether it be something serious or small to others.
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