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Condom protected oral/anal but showing symptoms. Discharge?
Hi, in 5 december i had a experience with a transexual. Was really nervous didnt had sex for almost 2 years after got heavy anxiety after an other exposure (was protected) that turned out to be nothing.
Well, back to this case, was wearing a condom for all the intercourse, she put the condom with her mouth and performed oral on me. Then i had anal with same condom for not more than 2-3minutes because was really nervous. Didnt *** in the condom, so not sure if there was any kind of leaking, dodnt looke much but the condom looked fine. Was she that tooked the condom off after.
Since then im having heavy anxiety so im not sure anymore, 5 days later i noticed going more to the bathroom, even at night i wake up 1/2 times and need to go urinate and thats not normal in me. I feel most of the times there is something at the tip but go check and most of the times there is nothing but other times (not everyday) the tip is a little wet but its almost nothing and is clear and not sticky. Im checking and squeezing the penis a lot to see if there is anything so dont know if this is thanks to me irritate it because of constantly do this. If i see inside urethra hole its kind of wet dont know if its normal dodnt had checked this anytime before this exposure. I notice too im dribbling a little after urinate, i think is urine it looks like urine at least. The underwear i check and there isnt really any strains, if it was an infection should have something no?
Could the condom have anytype of tear and i didnt notice it? I readed a lot around here and everyone says if it fails it would have break completely but this symptoms are making me insecure if there was anything wrong. About this symptoms what do you think?
Thanks for helping me out guys
Well, back to this case, was wearing a condom for all the intercourse, she put the condom with her mouth and performed oral on me. Then i had anal with same condom for not more than 2-3minutes because was really nervous. Didnt *** in the condom, so not sure if there was any kind of leaking, dodnt looke much but the condom looked fine. Was she that tooked the condom off after.
Since then im having heavy anxiety so im not sure anymore, 5 days later i noticed going more to the bathroom, even at night i wake up 1/2 times and need to go urinate and thats not normal in me. I feel most of the times there is something at the tip but go check and most of the times there is nothing but other times (not everyday) the tip is a little wet but its almost nothing and is clear and not sticky. Im checking and squeezing the penis a lot to see if there is anything so dont know if this is thanks to me irritate it because of constantly do this. If i see inside urethra hole its kind of wet dont know if its normal dodnt had checked this anytime before this exposure. I notice too im dribbling a little after urinate, i think is urine it looks like urine at least. The underwear i check and there isnt really any strains, if it was an infection should have something no?
Could the condom have anytype of tear and i didnt notice it? I readed a lot around here and everyone says if it fails it would have break completely but this symptoms are making me insecure if there was anything wrong. About this symptoms what do you think?
Thanks for helping me out guys
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So listen, first of all, stop checking and squeezing your penis. Be kind to it. You won't know if it's irritation from this unless you stop doing it. It's also not going to show anything. If you have to squeeze to get a discharge, it's not from an STD.
Second, raininspain is correct - everything was protected. You don't have anything to worry about here. If a condom failed, you'd know. It would rip, fall off - something noticeable. You wouldn't be left wondering.
Get tested if you must (though you really don't need to), but I suspect this is all anxiety. If this level of anxiety is not new to you, talk to your doctor about it.
Second, raininspain is correct - everything was protected. You don't have anything to worry about here. If a condom failed, you'd know. It would rip, fall off - something noticeable. You wouldn't be left wondering.
Get tested if you must (though you really don't need to), but I suspect this is all anxiety. If this level of anxiety is not new to you, talk to your doctor about it.
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ok so i have followed you advices guys and tryed to stay away from all the searchs in the internet and tryed to pay a minimal attention to it, about the urge to urinate it improved, no more awake in the night and go less times to the bathroom during the day
About the dribble it is still happening sometimes after urinate. what is worrying me now, is the fact that sometimes im still find the tip a little wet sometimes, its not sticky at all and looks clear and after urinate even if 30 min /1hour have passed if i push my gland skin (doing it gentle) something comes out, again clear and no sticky. In the underwear not everyday but i find some white faded stains but sometimes i doubt my penis was turned to that side of the boxers, since i check it everytime i go to the bathrrom, im confused about it.
Again, still no pain, no disconfort unless i think about it, no evidence discharge in the morning even if i try to squeeze a little and dont find more of the stains i was talking about.
What you guys think im still over thinking this and is just me paying to much attention or should i worry ?
About the dribble it is still happening sometimes after urinate. what is worrying me now, is the fact that sometimes im still find the tip a little wet sometimes, its not sticky at all and looks clear and after urinate even if 30 min /1hour have passed if i push my gland skin (doing it gentle) something comes out, again clear and no sticky. In the underwear not everyday but i find some white faded stains but sometimes i doubt my penis was turned to that side of the boxers, since i check it everytime i go to the bathrrom, im confused about it.
Again, still no pain, no disconfort unless i think about it, no evidence discharge in the morning even if i try to squeeze a little and dont find more of the stains i was talking about.
What you guys think im still over thinking this and is just me paying to much attention or should i worry ?
Any ideas?
Aboit the stains i paid more attrntion its like most of them disappear with time and sometimes i keep indoubt if my penis tip was in such places
Aboit the stains i paid more attrntion its like most of them disappear with time and sometimes i keep indoubt if my penis tip was in such places
Stop worrying yes you would have never checked so much before your encounter just forget about it stop worrying and move on
yes im trying to think this too, if it was all protected how could something enter in the urethra,and start to think there was a hole and i didnt see it? but there we go the condom is supposed to be notice when it fails....
By the way last couple of days, after not using the bathroom for a while im seeing a drop or at least a little wet/shiny at the tip at different times of the day when i pull back my penis skin (in the morning didnt notice it and dont seem to leave any stains during the day too) - its all clear and is more watery, not sticky or thick. does it look normal?
still waiting for go testing since festivities decorring and with the work is a difficult time, planning to go next week
By the way last couple of days, after not using the bathroom for a while im seeing a drop or at least a little wet/shiny at the tip at different times of the day when i pull back my penis skin (in the morning didnt notice it and dont seem to leave any stains during the day too) - its all clear and is more watery, not sticky or thick. does it look normal?
still waiting for go testing since festivities decorring and with the work is a difficult time, planning to go next week
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its not all of the time, but sometimes i see it, can it be from the exaustive manipulating the penis that causing this?
about the other sensation i described, if i can abstract for the problem at least a bit, its like the sensation of something down theres disappear, then when i remember its appear to come back. still anxious but modereated my anxiety a little i think still wake up at night but going less times to the bathrrom
about the other sensation i described, if i can abstract for the problem at least a bit, its like the sensation of something down theres disappear, then when i remember its appear to come back. still anxious but modereated my anxiety a little i think still wake up at night but going less times to the bathrrom
Here's my take and I think if you read other questions on this site you'll find a similar answer. You're experiencing anxiety about the encounter and it's manifesting in some very very mild 'symptoms' because you are suddenly hyper aware about looking for them. Chances are all the 'symptoms' you describe are mental projections or were always/often there in the past.
I'm not dismissing your concern, I'm simply saying that you like 100 others on this forum tend to get worked up over perfectly safe encounters with no need to be concerned at all.
If you want to rule out all concern, go get tested once you've cleared the time horizon required for tests to be effective (different for different infections).
But... you're not having any real symptoms that indicate and STD in my opinion.
I'm not dismissing your concern, I'm simply saying that you like 100 others on this forum tend to get worked up over perfectly safe encounters with no need to be concerned at all.
If you want to rule out all concern, go get tested once you've cleared the time horizon required for tests to be effective (different for different infections).
But... you're not having any real symptoms that indicate and STD in my opinion.
anyone?
for resume if its easy to interpret: sex was condom protected both oral and anal, condom apparently looked fine and she tooked it off (and accord to the topis i read i would know if it failed right? no micro tears or others ifs right?)
since then im being anxious about the exposure, and having:
-frequent urination, wake up at night and needing to go to the bathroom (not normal in me)
-dribbling/leak after urinate (have a question here, a discharge would be expected to come before urine and not after since its from urethra no? and when i masturbate i notice i leak think is just precum or prostatics fluids, it have their consistency, and the discharge wouldnt assume a form of nonsticky and sticky other times right?)
-constant feeling there is something coming out but if i check there isnt really anything, only if i squeeze it sometimes something come out but is less then a drop and is nonsticky and clear (could be from being constantly squeezing it? and for a discharge should have expect a more tick or stcky substance no?)
-not experiencing any type of pain, no stains in underwear, in the morning dont seem to see any discharge before urinate
for resume if its easy to interpret: sex was condom protected both oral and anal, condom apparently looked fine and she tooked it off (and accord to the topis i read i would know if it failed right? no micro tears or others ifs right?)
since then im being anxious about the exposure, and having:
-frequent urination, wake up at night and needing to go to the bathroom (not normal in me)
-dribbling/leak after urinate (have a question here, a discharge would be expected to come before urine and not after since its from urethra no? and when i masturbate i notice i leak think is just precum or prostatics fluids, it have their consistency, and the discharge wouldnt assume a form of nonsticky and sticky other times right?)
-constant feeling there is something coming out but if i check there isnt really anything, only if i squeeze it sometimes something come out but is less then a drop and is nonsticky and clear (could be from being constantly squeezing it? and for a discharge should have expect a more tick or stcky substance no?)
-not experiencing any type of pain, no stains in underwear, in the morning dont seem to see any discharge before urinate
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