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Do I have an STD?


I am really worried and I need advice. Almost 4 months ago I met someone and we started dating. We have never really had sex. We performed oral on each other. While he was doing so he also fingered me which means his saliva got into my vagina. This happened like 3 or 4 times. After 1 weeks after the first time I woke up with an intense pain in my right ovary. The pain did go away in 3 or 4 days and after that I totally forgot about it. Then like one week before my next period I had pain right side of my uterus and my period was late 4 days and there was quite heavy flow. Pain never went away but diminished with every period. My hormone levels changed. I still can't lie on my left side because I feel like there is a mass there and it tries to move down. And after the second period after event I had something like vaginal thrush with excess amount of discharge but the thing is there was no smell or color. While the situation is awkward with my uterus a burnish tinglish feeling occurred in right side of my groin. Next month with period I had it on both side. This feeling is like burning, tingling and it occurs in inner thighs, groin and right side of lower abdominal. Till that day I never thought of an STD because I had all the pain on my right side, I had no discharge showing something was wrong. I thought it was something about my ovary.

But almost 3 months after first we made out I had a sore throat for no reason and it didn't get any better for like 3 weeks. I had night sweats. I was always exhausted and cold. My armpits hurt. I had headache almost all the time. With these symptoms I had testes for HIV, hepatitis and syphilis. It all came out negative.

Now after the test I found a swollen lymph node in my right groin. I don't know since then it is there. (Well to be honest, I don't know if it is a lymph node because I've never had swollen lymph nodes so I don't know how it is. But there is definitely something swollen there, I am sure of it.) White spots on my tongue started to appear. They disappear in a few day and then appear again. I kinda have diarrhea. My stomach burns especially after eating. I don't really have nausea but I don't want to eat anything.

Now my question is, do you think I should get tested for HIV again? I trust my results and I know oral sex has a low risk for HIV transmission but that swollen lymph node bothers me a lot. And one week before I got tested same guy gave me oral again.

Can it be considered a high risk for STD his saliva entering my vagina? What can it be with all these symptoms if not HIV? Is there anyone here with similar symptoms?

Please help.
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And I forgot to add I have red rash on my back but it's not itchy.
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No risk for fingering you, with or without saliva on his fingers.
I don't know what those sypmtoms can be but not indicative of HIV because your tests were negative.
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