Do we share anything while a Condom is On ?

[usuallyworried]

I am a 39 year old male and had sex with CSW several times in the past. Every time it was a protected sex. But each time after a week or so of these encounters, I have symptoms i.e. itching around my penis, Abdominal pain and my urine loose strength in its stream. Thinking that I may have caught some STD, I visited physicians who ran tests like Chlamydia, Gonorrhea and HIV. They all turn out NEG EVERY TIME and symptoms goes away while I am taking pain med like Tylenol or Advil. Initially I thought it is probably due to change in condoms. So I started using my regular condom during these encounters. But I still experience the same symptoms. Interestingly, when I have sex with my regular partner, I do not have these symptoms. My question is, do we share something with the partner during protected sex if not virus, bacteria and infection ? If not, What else could cause these symptoms if it is a protected sex every time ? Could it be because of anxiety may be ? I am usually worried about catching something even during protected sex. I had even a panic attack once due to these symptoms thinking these symptoms were due to HIV I may have caught from the CSW. Although I never worried until I had these symptoms 1st time 4 years ago when I thought it could be HIV.
I'd highly appreciate if you could please comment on it. Please advise.

[Vance2335]

This is a STD forum, see a therapist if you want help with sexual issues.

Dr forums are currently closed.

[usuallyworried]

Hi Vance. Thanks for the reply.I travel frequently and find myself in situations like that. I know its wrong to see CSW but it seems like I have psychological issue as I can't resist even though I try to avoid it. I searched online and I appear to be suffering from sex addiction. I can't resist and browse porn n stuff online. I dont know if there's anything at all I can do to stop it ? Is there anything like counselling of some sort for this particular problem ?

I'd highly appreciate if a Dr. from this site can respond please.

[Vance2335]

My guess is anxiety, condom protected sex is just that. But if you have a regular partner why do you need to see a CSW?