1 - No, you can't get an STD from handjobs or french kissing.
2 - You can't get an STD from someone if they don't have one.
The only ways you can get an STD or HIV -
1 - Receiving unprotected oral sex - gonorrhea, syphilis, genital herpes type 1, NGU
2 - Giving unprotected oral sex (including rimming) - gonorrhea, syphilis
3 - Receiving protected oral sex (including rimming) - genital herpes type 1, syphilis - this is unlikely, but still possible
4 - Giving protected oral sex - syphilis - this is unlikely, but still possible
5 - Unprotected sex - including genital to genital rubbing, and genital to anal contact/penetration - HIV, gonorrhea, chlamydia, syphilis, genital herpes type 2, NGU, trich, mycoplasma, Hep B (if you are not vaccinated), HPV (vaccination reduced the risk, but there are many strains of this), chancre (not common in the US, but more common in Europe and Asia).
6 - Protected sex - including genital to genital rubbing, and genital to anal contact/penetration - genital herpes type 2, syphilis, HPV HPV (vaccination reduced the risk, but there are many strains of this), chancre (not common in the US, but more common in Europe and Asia).
No risk ever - handjobs, french kissing, touching breasts, fingering, grinding or rubbing with clothes on.
There - now you know all the risk activities, and what you'd be at risk for from each activity. Seriously, you need some help with this addiction (your word) you have. You do this and then panic every time. It's not healthy for you.
well thank you for helping me out how std's are transmitted than having a wrong information. this site has been helping out a lot. ill continue to have protect sex and hopefully bot does three exposure won't be a big problem for me the condom going inside her, threesome with protected condom and the handjob this thread can stop now thank you.