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Freaking out Stds? Help!
Last night, in a alcohol fueled episode I saw 3 escorts. 2 came to me at once, they perform protected oral sex on me and a moment of protected vaginal sex. I was not able to maintain an erection so it lasted maybe 2-3 minutes. The condom was intact through out and I didn't notice any sores or anything out of the ordinary on them. Then I saw another, she started to perform oral sex on me unprotected 20 seconds or so before I stopped her and insisted on a condom. She then performed protected oral sex on me. We also had protected vaginal sex and the condom remained intact, as I saw my semen it at the end. Very stupid I know..I'm more concerned with the short unprotected oral . What am I at risk for? What can I do?
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They don't do urethral swabs much anymore - your doctor is correct. However, it was pretty early to test, though I wouldn't worry. You had protected everything, so you should be fine, even with the very, very brief unprotected oral.
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Tests were negative, my anxiety got the best of me . I am glad he treated me this stuff profoloactively
When I asked of gono he said he'd never seen one case from receiving oral for turn into gono. He also said once tests were back and negative I could resume my regular activities my my significant other. I'm his opinion the testing wasn't necessary but did so for my piece of mind
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Yes, the protected activity is the safest it could be, though nothing is 100% safe.
That said, I agree 100% with everything klamidia said. Wouldn't change a thing.
I wouldn't worry too much about this. If you start to see any symptoms, get checked, but with such a brief exposure, I'd be very surprised if you did.
That said, I agree 100% with everything klamidia said. Wouldn't change a thing.
I wouldn't worry too much about this. If you start to see any symptoms, get checked, but with such a brief exposure, I'd be very surprised if you did.
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Thanks very much for taking the time to help me. You've really helped to ease the anxiety and help me think logically.
Update I am now feeling a sudden Urges to pee often
Go and test for bacterial infections, all of them, urethral swab, swab for clamydia and swab for micoplasma ureaplasma. And you will know.
Will they know to do these things? I'm actually at the doctors now
Update: tested for bacterial infections, none found in urinalysis. Doctor prescribed profolatic dose of Zithromax for upper respiratory infection and piece of mind. Chylmida and Gono test pending. Doctor believes these will be negative
Urine analysis will be positive for men only if the infection is progressed, you see men have long urethra and bacteria remains attached to it, that is why a swab is required. If I were your doctor would not trust the urine analysis, ask for a urethral swab.
He says they don't swab men anymore only females, and believes this was low risk and likely a product of anxiety and guilt. He did note that the Zithromax would take care of non specific uteritus and chlymidia
Syphilis, herpes type 1 and 2 gonorea and non specific urethritis(inflammation of the urethra caused by the normal bacterial flora of the mucosa in the mouth). These above are the risks of the short unprotected encounter, though based on what you are saying they are quite low. If she didn't had any open soars on the mouth or tongue, then it is unlikely to catch syphilis or hsv2, type 1 with the popularity of oral sex is found very often in the genitalia but rarely causes any problems.
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Thanks for the answer, would it be wise to test or see a doctor?
Only if you haven't done your annual check ups :), or you want to know your std status. Otherwise it is a very low risk encounter, plus there is an incubation period that must pass from the last exposure untill the tests are accurate. So I always recommend yearly testing, even when you are most certain that you have not been exposed (and this comes from personal experience :)). So to paraphrase, for your sake of mind and routine health check, I would do a full panel 3 months from now, if there is no symptoms of anything, if there is, then sooner.
Ok thanks again, I have been doing the check ups yearly
Also I'm assuming all of the covered activity is the safest it could be? I'm sorry I'm a bit anxious over all of this and sincerely wish I could undo it
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