1 month ago i had my bachelor party, i was beyond drunk, which isn't an excuse as all. my friends ended up pay for a private lap dance for me in the back room. the stripper was completely nude, she gave me oral not for that long and she also sat on my face as well and i performed oral on her (not sure how long). she also rubbed her vagina on my bare penis. we did not have sex, i do recall that because she asked if i had a condom and i said "no why" and she said because she doesn't trust anyone. I made the biggest mistake of my life that night, i've googled practically everything. my anxiety and depression has been through the roof about potentially ruining my life because of 1 night and with my wedding coming up soon in a few months. the stripper did not smell down there or seem to have any obvious marks or anything. days after my exposure i got a chlamydia and gonorreah tests done (yes i realize it may have been too soon) and i tested negative for those a week later. I ended up going to my doctor telling him the story and he said stds such as hiv are basically zero and low risk. i took an oraquick hiv rapid result swap at 4 weeks and it was negative (I got some minor relief from this but I know nothing is concrete). i plan on taking a 10 panel full std check tomorrow just because my stress and anxiety are through the roof and I know blood tests are much more concrete. the only symptoms i have been having are fatigue, no appetite (I have been trying to eat yogurt, applesauce and fruits just fine), my throat seems to hurt a little but not sure and abdominal pain and back pain on and off. i keep checking my lymph nodes because i feel like something is there but everything seems fine. i have no fever, no rashes, no itching, no warts, marks or bumps everything appears to be fine. i am not sure if i am making myself sick because of my anxiety for the last 4 weeks. i am wondering what STD's i could have gotten from receiving and giving oral sex and what are my chances of being positive and what else to test for?