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Having unprotected oral sex next week, is there any risks?

Hi so I’m 19, and am meeting a girl at her place to have oral sex only. No penetration. I want to know if there’s any possible risks, and how I can prevent them? Our plan is to just to blowjob, vagina licking, sucking breast and just sixty nine. My plan is not to wear a condom. Also, I haven’t had sex in two years and have been tested for that anyway, and I’m fine. The girl has been more active than me but has never done penetration (she doesn’t want to lose her virginity) hope someone can help
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I suggest you to use protection, if you 2 loves each other, get tested and start a good relationship, as I had many bad days of anxiety I suggest you to lower any risk as possible.
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Isle39 is correct, that there are theoretical risks associated with oral sex, but the risk of transmission is low enough that you shouldn't really worry about it.  The two big risks for oral sex are gonorrhea or NGU (although there is a debate about whether or not NGU counts as an STI or not). And, even with gonorrhea, most people don't have it, and most oral encounters, even with someone who does, don't transmit it.   There is a risk for syphilis and herpes, but unless your partner has an obvious sore on her mouth, you really have nothing to worry about.  So, in summary, oral sex isn't 100% safe, but it's safe enough that you should be able to engage in the activities you describe without too much worry.  

As a good rule of thumb, if you're sexually active, you should be getting include an STI screening with your annual check-up.  Other than that, if you're only engaging in oral sex, you shouldn't need any additional testing unless you're showing symptoms (discharge, burning while urinating, or lesions/sores on your penis).
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Hey there! So I met up with the girl and all we did was kiss and I sucked her breasts. The whole thing lasted about 20 minutes. Is there any chances of me getting any STD/STI? Her lips were a bit dry / chapped but that was about it, i think it’s due to the cold weather
No, this has no risk of an STI transmission.
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The risks of unprotected oral sex are oral gonorrhea, syphilis, oral herpes and oral hpv.  Syphilis is a very dangerous disease that has to be treated with antibiotics.  Herpes and hpv are for life.  Some types of hpv can cause oral warts, others can lead to cancers of the mouth and throat.
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I recommend getting your hpv shots before engaging in any kind of unprotected oral sex.
Hey there! So I met up with the girl and all we did was kiss and I sucked her breasts. The whole thing lasted about 20 minutes. Is there any chances of me getting any STD/STI? Her lips were a bit dry / chapped but that was about it, i think it’s due to the cold weather
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