Is this low risk?

[mjones1993mjones]

Today I saw a high end escort and as things started to heat up she sat on top of me with my bare penis exposed. However she was wearing a lace g string thong. She may have moved her hips back and forth a couple times before I asked her to stop rubbing. I'm pretty sure my penis didn't make any direct contact with her vagina as it was covered by her sparse underwear. I'm a little concerned that the underwear was kind of lace like with very small holes (kinda like mesh) may have posed a risk for HSV. She also gave me covered oral sex.

Do any of those activities pose a risk for any STDs?

Thank you!

[auntiejessi]

I agree with GuitarRox. I wouldn't worry about this at all.

[mjones1993mjones]

Thanks all! I'm trying to put this behind me, but I've noticed sometimes when I urinate there's a burn. I think it's related to dehydration, but has me wondering if it could be gonorrhea or chlamydia.

I know it was protected but I'm wondering if any of her saliva could have entered from the bottom of the condom and worked it's way up from the back and forth motion.

Also, I've had unprotected sex with my partner, and she has had a bad stomach ache for a week or so now. I've read that it's possible for gonorrhea to cause stomach pain in women, but I'd think this symptom would show up longer than the typical day 5 symptoms of discharge, etc.

Does any of this change what you 2 think?

[auntiejessi]

I know you're anxious, and maybe feeling guilty, but let's reason this out.

The saliva would not only have to enter the condom from the bottom of the condom, worked its way up to the top AND entered your urethra. Also, whatever bacteria was present would have had to survive that process.

The reason condoms work for oral sex is because the bacteria for gonorrhea and chlamydia reside in the throat. During oral sex, the penis hits the throat, right? The condom prevents that bacteria from entering the urethra.

STDs cause lower abdominal cramping in women, almost like period cramps. Is that what your partner is feeling? If she has a bad stomach ache, more like a flu or she's eaten something bad, that's not related to an STD.

So no, it doesn't change anything, other than I think your partner should get checked out by her doctor. Any symptoms lingering for 5 days should be checked out. I don't think it's related to this at all, but something is happening to her. Also, you should drink more water.  

[GuitarRox]

This sounds like no risk to me.  If her genital area did not touch yours directly, there was no 'skin to skin' contact. That doesn't mean skin to g string thong contact but genital to genital. This didn't happen, I'd not be concerned.  Covered oral sex is also such that you were safe.  I'd not be concerned about std's.