Hello, I am a 34 year old gay male. In late 2018, I identified an ulcer on my penis and sought immediate treatment for potential syphilis. My PA ordered a bicilin injection and blood work which confirmed an early syphilis infection (RPR titer 1:2). Future syphilis blood work (3 months after treatment) detected nothing in RPR/syphilis blood work. In three follow-up regular STI screening (no symptoms) panels, no antibodies detected, all clear. Most recent being in late February 2020. Now, I am in a monogamous relationship which began at end of January 2020. My partner and I both have been diagnosed with syphilis in the past (his diagnosis was 4 years ago). Both of our STI panels were clear in late February 2020 and neither of us were unfaithful (I believe him, COVID means you spend a LOT of time with your partner).
Two weeks ago, I went to my doctor for follow-up blood work unrelated and he ran a usual batter of tests, including syphilis, HIV, etc. This time, my syphilis RPR came back positive with a 1:4 RPR ratio. However, I understand this can sometimes be a false positive especially for people that may have autoimmune disorders or a history of mononucleosis (I have both). I sent my partner to his doctor for blood work and now he comes back with a 1:8 RPR titer. Neither of us at any time in the last six months have presented with any chancres/ulcers, rashes, unexplained fevers, headaches, etc. Both of us will be treated accordingly. As I understand, these are low titer levels and may not possibly indicate a new infection.
My question is: is it possible that an undetected case of syphilis slipped through BOTH of our blood work analysis in February and that we were BOTH asymptomatic to bring in a new infection? Is this possible to be a false positive and the RPR test is picking up other antibodies for both of us? We've both been monogamous since late January 2020. he had other partners in January and I had one in early January. However, I would suspect that any indication of infection would be picked up 4-6 weeks later in our late February/early March blood work. I appreciate your assistance and insight into this. Thank you.