STD maybe??

[Markj089]

I have been in the HIV forum and now feel better they have advised I had no risk of HIV.

Can you please help with regards to STDs.

I have read many comments so in a way I think I know the response I am expecting but still want to tell my story.

About 3 months ago I had two different encounters. One was protected sex with a sex worker (where there were no apparent tears - not that I looked or paid much attention but I think I would have felt it if it broke).

The second incident was a massage which ended with unprotected oral on my penis but without ejaculating for about 3 minutes, and then the last minute was with her hand to complete the job.


My urine was tested for chlamydia and gonorrhoea a week or two after the incident and all clear. Since then I have had small raised lumps on either side of the opening of my urethra which looks better some days. My gp has said that this is just my skin changing and nothing to worry about. It does not hurt. One of the masseuses rubbed some baby oil on my head which hurt a bit at the time as this is a sensitive area for me, under the foreskin.
However today I was getting a small discharge from my penis. It was clear and may have been precum but I am not sure. Also when I urinate, there is no burning sensation but it does feel a bit warm when i urinate but no pain. I suffered from what was called anxiety in the early weeks after the encounter which I believe I am now over.

Please advise if all is ok. Thanks.

[Markj089]

It has been a year since the incident. I have developed a swollen testicle which is quite sensitive. Could the original urine tests have been wrong and chlamydia has shown up a year later. I have no other symptoms. Hospital have said it's an infection. Is it unlikely to be chlamydia from exposure a year ago?

[Markj089]

Thanks. But syphilis sores don't hurt so what is the difference between sores and bumps? Thanks for your patience. Just want my wife to be safe after my mistakes.

[Life360_Dave]

Syphilis are sores not raised bumps,

[Markj089]

How common is syphilis and is it not possible that the small raised areas at the urethra opening are not from syphillis. I am 100% sure that I did not have these raised areas at the opening before the experiences. The event was about 2 and half months ago and the raised bumps at the opening are still there.

[Life360_Dave]

Hi also. The doc said its your natural skin and std,s you would have a white discharge which is a sign of an infection but getting gono or chlamydia from oral sex is very low risk as she would need to give you a deep throat oral where your penis was in the back of her throat as that is where bacteria with those would be.
Normally testing is recommended with symptoms as urethra discomfort and a white discharge that occurs about 5 days after OR if you have a regular partner and would test for there protection.
From you activity test for herpes, syphilis. 3 months is long enough to wait.

[Markj089]

I know I shouldn't inspect the symptoms but look at the cause. Does everyone agree that I have nothing from the exposure stated above? More explained comments would make me feel better and help me move on. Thanks all.

[Markj089]

Just don't understand what that is on my opening at tip of penis. Plus I am getting cold sores on my tongue every few weeks. Is this really nothing? Could it be from the baby oil that was rubbed on, under my foreskin?

[Prizefighter]

If I were you, I would move on and be happy. Stop inspecting your body. You are fine.

[Markj089]

Any ideas what the small lumps on opening of urethra are and is it a coincidence that it happened after the encounter? Could it be just a reaction that will stay from the baby oil that was rubbed on it?

Would you say I don't need a test of any kind and that I can resume sex with my current partner without any worry?

Thanks.

[Vance2335]

I see no reason to be concerned with a STD.